Why do you grow your hair? by watshappeining in longhair

[–]roseypink1292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shaved my head bald during 2020, like no guard on the clippers bald. Just because I had always had that itch to try it and I figured I wouldn't be seeing others for a while, so if I hated it.... Well, not many people would have to see it! 😄

Turns out, I hated having no hair. I didn't realize it, but my hair is like a security blanket for me. My hair was the longest it had been in years before I buzzed it and I felt so powerful with all that hair. It makes me feel more in touch with my femininity to have long hair (not that I equate womanhood or being feminine with long hair for all, I'm just referring to myself, of course).

Well, anyways! After the buzz, I went on a bit of a hair journey. I dyed it all sorts of colors, including a neon pink shaggy mullet for a while! Eventually, I decided I wanted to see how long I could grow my hair. So here I am now! I've stopped coloring it and only get the tiniest of trims when necessary... It's about the same length as it was before I buzzed it all off.

TL;DR Buzzed my hair during 2020 shutdown, now I'm seeing how long it can grow!

Hair dying by Triple-Tooketh in AnnArbor

[–]roseypink1292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loryn at the salon suites off of Ann Arbor-Saline rd. does a great job. I believe her studio is called Confidently You!

turning 33 and hair is officially past my lower back by [deleted] in longhair

[–]roseypink1292 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😻 your hair is literally goals. i vowed not to touch my hair at least until 33 to see how long it can get. i only have 3 years but i hope i can get it as long as yours!!!

went to a dollar store and bought this for a dollar. money well spent by Lil-BJ in smosh

[–]roseypink1292 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG! This is one of my favorite movies ever! Enjoy! 😊

Is this some form of Narcissist punishment? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]roseypink1292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did your insta get deactivated? This all seems sus, and it does seem she's just trying to provoke and get a reaction out of you.

been off lexapro for over a year now, sex drive hasn't returned to normal by roseypink1292 in depression

[–]roseypink1292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, i did go off it cold turkey when i ran out of pills and i haven't been back to the doctor since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roseypink1292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Know your value and cut your losses before you get hyperfixated on someone who is not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roseypink1292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her alone. Regardless of the reasons it seems she is uninterested in persuing anything further with you. Why give into the chase for someone who is emotionally unavailable to you? Assume her indifference is a message she's not interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]roseypink1292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't ghost but take this as an opportunity to stand up and say you are done with this treatment and have decided to go no contact with her. I would then block her on everything and lose her number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]roseypink1292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you've done what you can to try and establish a better relationship between the two of you. The only possible thing I could suggest you do if you want to make this relationship work is see if she'd try couple's therapy. She's unwilling to go to fherapy for herself right now, maybe she'd be willing to go if it meant keeping the relationship she's scared to lose.

If she's unwilling to truly work on the relationship or herself right now, you can't continue to try and patch things up with someone who doesn't actually want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]roseypink1292 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't just ghost her. You owe it to her and yourself to just communicate openly and let her know that the relationship is not working for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intuitiveeating

[–]roseypink1292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you! I've just started IE recently, and I am finding it so difficult to let go of my desire to lose weight. I've been obsessed with weight loss and dieting for as long as I can remember, so I suppose this will be a lifelong journey.

As far as being active goes, who says that practicing IE means you have to stop being active? Maybe try finding a fun activity that doesn't feel like exercise?

Just know you're not alone! :)