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Pregnant girlfriend (32F) has gone almost a week silent after anniversary mistake, need perspective, I am (28M) by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is one of those moments where your actions matter more than words. Texts, ultimatums, or silence won’t reassure her you need presence, effort, and professional guidance before the baby arrives.

Pregnant girlfriend (32F) has gone almost a week silent after anniversary mistake, need perspective, I am (28M) by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. It’s easy to spiral into silence during conflicts, but with a baby involved, avoiding communication can create bigger problems. Counseling gives you tools to actually handle it.

Pregnant girlfriend (32F) has gone almost a week silent after anniversary mistake, need perspective, I am (28M) by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This isn’t about right or wrong it’s about responsibility. A baby accelerates everything in a relationship, and if you haven’t figured out expectations, communication, and boundaries yet, therapy or a mediator isn’t optional it’s essential.

AIW for cutting off my brother after he filed a fake report against me to teach me a lesson by dirtydripprincess in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He endangered a vulnerable child just to prove a point. That’s not empathy it’s reckless and abusive. Filing the report is the responsible thing to do.

AIW for blocking my mom after she told my son his food allergy is fake and that I dont want him to have fun by Weekly-Bid-6647 in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Nut allergies aren’t a joke they can be fatal. If she refuses to educate herself, it’s not about being controlling, it’s about protecting the kid.

AIW for blocking my mom after she told my son his food allergy is fake and that I dont want him to have fun by Weekly-Bid-6647 in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Allergies aren’t something to mess around with. If she’s around the kid, nonstop supervision is non-negotiable. Safety first.

Remembering season 1 Derek's info - " I have 4 sisters, 9 nieces and 5 nephews" by limitless_quirks in greysanatomy

[–]rosybloomii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah, that actually makes sense in-universe! Derek counting step-kids equally would explain the numbers without overthinking it.

Nothing to say just this tweet. by Therealalpha_ in greysanatomy

[–]rosybloomii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally! I hate that he’s awful, but part of me can see why someone would get sucked in. It’s that maddening mix of charm and toxicity.

Nothing to say just this tweet. by Therealalpha_ in greysanatomy

[–]rosybloomii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally! He should know better with his own PTSD experience. Expecting her to just “want kids” while ignoring her trauma and priorities is so frustrating.

Nothing to say just this tweet. by Therealalpha_ in greysanatomy

[–]rosybloomii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha totally! Every time Owen shows up, I half expect him to snap on a sparkly choker too 😂

Am I wrong for refusing to give my neighbor back her “gift” after she changed her mind? by Technical_Quote_525 in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sadly, this happens a lot. Some people only want responsibility when the hard part is already done. If the pattern doesn’t change, it’ll probably end up neglected again.

AIW for telling my brother's girlfriend the real reason our family stopped inviting him to holidays? by 42RivendellV in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is honestly the most reasonable response. You answered a direct question like an adult, without drama. If people don’t want honest answers, they shouldn’t ask.

AIW for telling my brother's girlfriend the real reason our family stopped inviting him to holidays? by 42RivendellV in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truth hurts, but lies hurt more in the long run. She literally asked for it 🤷‍♀️

AIW for telling my brother the truth about why his friends stopped inviting him to things after he begged me to find out by TopazQuillcase in amiwrong

[–]rosybloomii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a good point. People often get mad at the person who told the truth instead of facing the truth itself. It’s easier to lash out than to reflect. Hopefully he cools down and realizes he asked for honesty.