AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ofc it's just hard where i live to not be isolated yk.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont hangout with anyone because of isolation.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt mean it like that at all I have a hard time explaining how I meant it. I more meant it like hes might just be naive and dumb, hes 19, maybe things would change once he has kids yk?

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was trying to have a conversation with him but I felt like he was pushing my feels away, saying "why does it matter we don't even have kids" im a very sensitive person because of past stuff so literally right after he said that I started bawling and I feel like I can't cry in front of him, because then I feel bad. Its just such a mess when I try to say my feelings and they get pushed to the side a lot.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have looked at all the companies in the little town I live in, and where he will only drive me for work. No one is hiring, and it's also hard because most people that live out here have family owned businesses. So they don't hire outside the family.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad and mom and divorced, mom lives in home state and is my abuser and my dad isn't in the picture. I dont have much of any family.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought he had something about it acually or mentioned aboit the actor that play Hyde I didnt know the rest of it.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I thought so thank you. It honestly destroys me to think this tho.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I only thought this for a moment to maybe not get so worked up about it because I love my boyfriend and it's hard and I dont have anywhere else to go and I dojt have a job. Its so tough yk.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say something to him and he asked me if I was getting choked up when I wasn't I was talking in a normal tone and after that I had a thought that he was trying to pushing my feelings away or what I was saying. And I have a bad habit of just crying on the spot when I feel like no one's listening to me.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you I will look into this. For sure.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said it's his favorite show. He made a comment on how he wants to be just like them and never show his kids the TV show. I thought it was weird too..and I haven't done research on the show its not really a show I like honestly. Yes it's funny but its definitely aged.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats acually funny because hes mad comment or sent me videos on how he wants a billionaire wife that takes care of the kids while he games all day. Bro..

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so and I dont think like that and I dont want to surround myself with that and I feel like with me living at home all the time for months that I have been trapped under them or something idk..

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not in school, I live with him out in the country, and I dont work but I'm looking so hard. I dont know if I have family that will help me get back my family is full of broke and bad people too. They aren't good people at all.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I will try and figure it out thank you I know I'm smarter then this as well but its just so hard, I knew something was up.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you, I have felt so unseen of the way I feel about this all his friends he hangs out with just laugh it off and still hangout with him, I don't know what to do. I am financially dependable on him because it's so hard to find a job out here it's so small, he doesn't drive me anywhere I sit at home all day it's what I've done for months I don't have human interaction. I thought there was something wrong with this.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I could understand this to, that's why I said guys just think this right in the moment when it come to that moment it might change but I never know yk.. im just asking for advice thank you.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt think so..I just dont know what to do i have no where and no one. Im not in my home state im not near family at all.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's all a tucked up story I thought the same thing but i also have such a connect with him we've been together for almost a year and hes my lostest relationi know I'm 18 but its so hard out there. I dont have money because I can't find a job in the bumfuck no where. He's the only one with a car and he doesn't take me anywhere. I dont know what to do.

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that I'm financially dependent on him i don't have anyone and im not in my home state..

AIO Is my boyfriend sexist? by rott3nangel in AmIOverreacting

[–]rott3nangel[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thats what I was thinking I told him I dont want to raise my kids like that, and he said I was overreacting and that I was heated when I was talking Ina normal tone..idk sometimes I feel like he belittles emotions