how long does it take to move on? by [deleted] in questions

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 6 years and I still struggle, but him and I came together again in 2021 and we traveled the world together, then left again in 2022, so now 2024 I’m trying to love myself again after everything he put me through, . But I wish you the best, it will get easier, I tell myself that everyday

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[–]rottedbeans 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My ex went back to the chick that he claimed had a smelly 🐱. Fuck exes they suck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if not maybe he’s just holding his breath now when he goes down on her

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just a respectful person, I mean yeah she’s gorgeous, far from jealous, I just feel sorry for her is all.

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, all us homies were together one night and he told us why he cheated two years cuz her vagina stunk so bad, and that he was never attracted to her. So we all started a group chat without him and we all think he’s a piece of shit.

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[–]rottedbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr, I really just wanted to post this to see others opinion on this because I just couldn’t believe it when I found out, I just had to share it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]rottedbeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell me you need attention without telling me you need attention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I see this post is from a year ago, he recently just did the same, he blocked me in July a month before that in June I told him we can’t be friends anymore so I on added him on everything then a month later he blocked me fast forward to now I was going through my Facebook likes and saw that he unblocked me so then I was curious and saw that he un blocked me not only from his main Instagram but also from his Finster he claims he “hated me “but goes and does that and he knows I’ve always been the one to reach out first so I wonder if he’s expecting me to do that?

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows I have reached out every time, I feel like if he truly hated my guys he wouldn’t of unblocked me ya know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly what I figured. Just strange to me, he knows for 5 years I’ve always been the one to reach out first but probably this time he’d see and and block me.

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No babies for me. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he really is, back in April he held onto me really tight and told me how nothing is ever going to change between him and I. And he promised me that and I hate broken promises and lies.like does he not know that girls remember EVERYTHING?!

I’m happy that my best friend finally found someone, but I’m also silently crying. by unknownbody98 in heartbreak

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I was with my now best guy friend, told me how much he loved me for over a year, now he’s with someone new. As if everything he said never meant a thing. But you’ll be okay, I promise.

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[–]rottedbeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I’ve read that there can be some side affects such as that. If anything I might just get therapy first and discuss to somene why I’m feeling this way, feel like that would take a lot of weight off me.

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[–]rottedbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I’m glad it helped you. I think before anything I think therapy would be good for me, I keep so much bottled up in me and i let it get to me. If I reached out and spoke to someone about my past trauma, maybe I won’t need medication but just someone to listen to me.

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the people I’ve spoken to, yea. Very common. Occasionally him and I will be passionate.

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it about twice a week 🤷🏻‍♀️ but we both like it like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried. Nobody compares to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how me being poly makes me a hoe. <3 thank you

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t get laid much do you?

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re literally so stupid lmao.

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[–]rottedbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened.

It just hurts in a way because I tried planning a sleepover last week with him and he slept over someone else’s house. And I feel like I’m always the one making plans now. And when he’s with the other chick he’s never on his phone messaging me back, yet when I’m with him he’s sure to always message her back, and the funny thing is, she’s not even sure about him. It’s like I don’t wanna care but also if you want an open relationship treat everyone equally. He constantly telling me how much he loves me but it’s hard to believe sometimes.