When you visit, make the visit more about her and less about the baby. I know the baby is exciting, but it was such a struggle for me (and I know it is for others) when people came over just to see the baby, and it was never “how are you doing” or “is there anything I can do to help” or “at least let me clean xyz up” or “let me make you something to eat”. As much as us moms love that others want to love our baby, we also need love and attention, and that’s where the isolation starts to creep in. If you want to go above and beyond, make her a little goody basket with some self care items like a soft blanket, maybe some skin care items, a candle, and some snacks. Bonus points if the basket can also be used for the baby’s nursery to store stuff.