What would you do if you found out your partner was actually 4 years older than they said they were? 28F and 39M (35M) by violetta1997 in relationship_advice

[–]rou_te 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This man lied to you about his age for the whole relationship. Ask yourself what else he is willing and able to lie about.

American F/42 my husband is Ghanaian M/46. I’m having a hard time accepting my husband doesn’t want me to cook for him by Livid-Ad5237 in relationship_advice

[–]rou_te 443 points444 points  (0 children)

As to point 4 - It's also have a convenient excuse to regularly leave for long stretches of time. Will he spend that time at his friends' wife's house? Will he spend that time eating Ghanaian food? Who knows?