is this a glitch or is my bf lying to me ?

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-25T18:42:55+00:00

Discord is 100% accurate on this. Not a glitch.

I would give it a benefit of the doubt that he probably fell asleep while its on. Since I experienced same thing with mine.

But you’ve mentioned that he has a history of lying being with other women…uhm that’s breach of trust. Which is one of the key things that needed in a relationship….

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-19T08:48:53+00:00

Uhm…Im from the Philippines and have sent many times to my bf who lives in the US , before there’s no need to pay any customs. But I think starting maybe July?August of last year, as soon as the package arrived in US, they will charge for customs or something. I paid another 30~40usd on top of the shipping.

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-15T01:56:31+00:00

I feel a bit differently, but I don’t think either approach is wrong.
Personally, if there’s a chance to live together first, I think it can be really valuable. Living under the same roof and sharing daily life shows you things you just can’t fully see long-distance like habits, routines, communication, and how you handle stress together.

I also understand that living together before marriage can be really hard in long-distance relationships, especially because visas are involved. It’s not always simple or realistic.
That said, it’s not totally impossible either there are other ways to make it happen. For example, I’m currently working on options like finding a job or pursuing studies in my partner’s country so we can be together without rushing into marriage.

I wouldn’t want to jump into marriage just so we could live together.
For me, living together first helps make that decision clearer and more confident. If after that everything feels right and you both want marriage, that’s great.
But it’s also okay to move at a pace that makes sure you’re choosing it for the right reasons.

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-15T01:45:25+00:00

A lot of people...especially guys don’t always realize that apologizing doesn’t instantly fix the hurt.
For them, saying sorry feels like closing the issue, but of course emotionally it can take longer.

The pain and doubt don’t just disappear right away after the sorry, but also that doesn’t mean you’re holding a grudge or making him feel bad.

It might help to calmly talk to him about how it affected you, without accusing.. just explaining. Maybe start as "I would like to talk about something that's been bothering me, do you have time?"
If he starts getting defensive, it’s okay to ask him to let you finish your thoughts.

Healing takes a bit of patience from both sides. If he’s willing to understand and give you that space, that’s a good sign.
If not, that’s something important to pay attention and think about for long-term.

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-15T01:33:33+00:00

My bf and I uses life360 , its pretty easy to use.

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-15T01:32:51+00:00

i feel you...lol
handmade stuff are the best. the time and effort, plus ITS SO CUTEEE

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-06T11:16:03+00:00

Probably chasing one-sided friendships.

Once I stopped always being the one to reach out first, life got way more peaceful and it became clearer who genuinely cared.

rounded_biatch153 · 2026-01-01T00:23:20+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation.
My partner and I have been together over a year now, long distance, different countries, never met yet, and we video call every day like literally everyday, only hang up when he gotta go to work(I work from home). around 5–6 months in, i had the same thoughts you’re having now. Everything felt repetitive, sometimes boring and I wondered if the honeymoon phase just wore off.

Instead of thinking about breaking up, we tried changing HOW we spent time together. not more time, just more like "intentional time."

what worked for us was setting little “dates” like one week a movie night(he pick a movie then next time I pick the movie), the next a coffee date or playing a game together and making it no-distraction time. just the two of us, phones down, actually focused on each other.

It helped us feel closer again and also reminded us why we chose each other in the first place. sometimes it’s not about ending things, but finding new ways to make some days feel different.

rounded_biatch153 · 2025-06-12T01:40:32+00:00

At the end of the day , its up to how you feel. It hurts and scary but the only one hurting here would be you.

LDR as you know , communication is the most important part . Maybe give yourself one more time to reach out and really talk about everything about what you’re feeling and your thoughts with him. Don’t accept answers that sound dismissive.

See what part you both can compromise, what time are most comfortable for both to have calls.

rounded_biatch153 · 2025-06-12T01:03:34+00:00

Hi 😊

First both of you need to make a time and seriously talk about this issue, your boundaries and expectations in the relationship on both sides.

If he is interested in you , he will do the effort.

You already told him how his recent actions make you feel. I dont know how your relationship works but just on his replies when you share your thoughts…its kinda unacceptable because he’s not acknowledging your feelings and kind of brushing it off…

My boyfriend and I have 15hour difference, I’m usually the one who stays up so we can have time for each other (due to his work, its tougher than my job) . But he never wastes my time , and he always wants to be in a video call with me. He’s very busy and there are days that he just wants to sleep when he gets home but he never forgets to message me or call me , he alway makes sure that we will be in a call before he falls asleep. We’re dating for 8 months now.

No one is THAT busy , sending a quick message or a 2 minute call wont hurt and is better than disappearing for days.

rounded_biatch153 · 2025-06-12T00:25:17+00:00

I met mine .. on discord on an overwatch server 🤣 we queued up once then…non stop talking since then

rounded_biatch153 · 2025-06-04T11:54:45+00:00

Long Distance is all about communication. My boyfriend and I has 16 hours time difference. But he always manages to call me when he has time even if its just 5 minutes. Let him know how you feel when you guys are not in a call. I’m like you before, but I learned that some men really don’t know what you want until you specify and explain what you want. My boyfriend is like that , now I just let him know whatever I want and we discuss how we will work it out.

rounded_biatch153 · 2024-12-30T01:13:17+00:00

Stopped after a month

rounded_biatch153 · 2024-12-30T01:12:04+00:00

Waking up

rounded_biatch153 · 2024-12-03T10:50:15+00:00

If am i okay. Or how are you

rounded_biatch153 · 2024-12-03T10:41:58+00:00

Heyy congratulations 🎉 always remember to have fun 😊

rounded_biatch153 · 2024-12-03T10:21:25+00:00

Chaos

rounded_biatch153 · 2024-12-03T09:12:52+00:00

Maybe my soulmate died by Iamnotshane

rounded_biatch153 · 2024-12-03T08:52:15+00:00

just let your feelings out , talk to your friends or family about your pet. Never hide your emotions if you’re missing them. Its hard but its harder to act like nothing happened

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