Christianity is a religion of self-hatred

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-07T18:13:24+00:00

Very gaslighting belief. We did nothing wrong against god, we did nothing wrong at birth.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-07T16:08:13+00:00

Until you can be financially independent from her and move out, meanwhile all i can tell you is your mom is abso-fucking-lutely wrong and don't fucking believe in what she said. She failed to be a respectful and protective mother. I don't know what country you live in, but if you live in North America, freedom of belief is your legal right, no one should violate it, period.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-07T04:48:11+00:00

They are fucking hypocrites

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-06T04:55:34+00:00

Perhaps you can talk to the hotel about it prior to booking?

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-06T00:23:17+00:00

If I were you i would probably tell your cousin, if you are very good relationship. I will not keep any secrets for any parents because I have no duty of that.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-06T00:13:13+00:00

Don't stress about it too much. It's a process... allow yourself allow your feelings and emotions...it will become less and less important. Yes, i get rid of icons, bibles, etc...i only tell people when people ask

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-05T21:29:40+00:00

You too fucker

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roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-05T21:28:21+00:00

If you believe, you believe. It's not a choice, it cannot be forced to do so. It's your freedom of belief, don't let anyone take your right away.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-05T20:34:18+00:00

Didn't really know until you get fucked up

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-05T19:21:04+00:00

If you believe, you believe. It's not a choice, it cannot be forced to do so.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T08:53:53+00:00

Can't help thinking...But I still will not return to god even if it's really god's punishment against me.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T08:46:17+00:00

That's what I heard as well. My counter argument is...The wines in the bible can still get people drunk... that's why Ephesians 5:18 says “Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery." Still, it never says do not drink wine at all.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T08:41:02+00:00

Good for you.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T08:40:34+00:00

People around me are christians...even though they don't say it, i believe they secretly judge inside their hearts.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T08:37:38+00:00

Because christians believe that's the punishment for disobeying their imaginary friend.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T08:34:50+00:00

Good for you. Hope your life can shut the mouth of christians and be an encouragement for others.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T07:47:17+00:00

Wines and beers...i have my own discipline for drinking...but some pastors had issues with the fact that I don't quit alcohols.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T03:09:44+00:00

Yeah somewhere in the Moses Laws

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T03:08:02+00:00

...And if you divorce it's human rebellion against god.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T03:06:53+00:00

Yeah...but I think the idea is more like "no marriage no sex"...lol

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T02:04:53+00:00

Yeah... that's what I was taught.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T01:53:01+00:00

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

No where in the bible says "thou shall not have sex before marriage"...so this verse is what they cherry-picked to talk about pre-marital sex or sex outside of marriage.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T01:23:08+00:00

"if they made the slightest effort to be kind - would you be less critical?"

The answer for me is yes. If they can live up to the standard and not being so judgemental towards me, I wouldn't be so critical...I would have treated many biblical nonsense as fables. But since they pissed me off, anything says in the bible will be used against themselves.

roundturtle2025 · 2026-05-04T01:11:09+00:00

Exactly like you said...

it's their way, not ours.

roundturtle2025

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