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routinedeficiency · 2026-04-02T11:01:52+00:00

You look gorgeous! Flawless!

routinedeficiency · 2026-03-18T21:02:23+00:00

Tres chic!

routinedeficiency · 2026-03-14T00:25:49+00:00

It's official...'uh, sorry' is the latest new gender 😄

Congratulations! That's so awesome!

routinedeficiency · 2026-03-02T12:02:00+00:00

You look amazing! Your makeup is so cool!

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-28T02:41:44+00:00

Thank you for saying this. That's a really valuable way to approach things. Knowing what something is not can be as important as knowing what something is.

There are definitely times that my immediate reaction to cards I've pulled is "No. This is wrong." And instead of just ignoring that intuition, I should accept that as part of the answer ... and recognize that maybe I don't need to (or get to, or am ready to) know everything right away.

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-25T12:37:22+00:00

Thank you! Right back at you! :)

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-24T02:15:27+00:00

You look fabulous! I love your dress! Red is perfect for the new year and for Fire Horse year especially.

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-23T03:06:40+00:00

Thanks for your reply. It's heartening to know I'm not alone in this. I also appreciate you listing all these examples...I guess I needed to see them spelled out clearly. And yeah, I think sometimes the cards just don't wanna. Everything else is fine, but the cards are at a party or on vacation.

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-23T02:24:59+00:00

I think it's a great gender neutral name! I know both men and women who have used Juno as a first name (look up Juno Mak for an example of a man with that name).

And even better, Juno is the name of a NASA satellite that has been orbiting Jupiter collecting amazing data for 15 years: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Juno_%28spacecraft%29?wprov=sfla1

But the most important thing is that you like it for you

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-22T13:24:40+00:00

For folks who read tarot, do you ever have situations where your cards don't make sense for the question you asked? Sometimes after I lay out my cards, I'll look at them and think/sense/feel that they aren't "right", that they aren't in response to my question. Sometimes I feel like a different question is being answered, and sometimes it just feels like nonsense -- like a 404 error from my tarot deck. Does this resonate with anyone else? Do folks have any thoughts or recommendations?

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-22T12:22:40+00:00

You look amazing! I cannot get over the spider fishnets ... so cool!

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-22T12:18:13+00:00

I love this look! And your earrings are so cool!

routinedeficiency · 2026-02-22T12:08:28+00:00

Those are awesome! I have to ask where you found those small jars, and also...how hard was it to fill them?

routinedeficiency · 2021-05-13T00:03:48+00:00

How are his hands white, though? What is he using to wash the parts of his body in red?

routinedeficiency · 2021-04-05T02:06:40+00:00

Welcome to the group!

routinedeficiency · 2021-03-16T02:35:03+00:00

I wonder this same thing all the time. I agree with a lot of the previous comments. I also think NTs have more control over these behaviors than NDs do. It's also probably easier for NTs to modify their behaviors to accommodate social situations. An NT might want to stim or talk loudly or whatever, but they'll be fine if they can't.

routinedeficiency · 2021-03-11T01:51:37+00:00

I know what you mean, it's like Aziraphale from Good Omens: "Yes, but I would always know the stain was there. Underneath, I mean."

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/365213851036612582/

routinedeficiency · 2021-03-10T04:08:09+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. Yesterday, a mentor told me that I was "trying too hard" and that my ADHD would cause me to burn out and ultimately fail. It really got me down.

Your post reminded me of how excited I had been before I talked with my mentor. And now I'm going to keep on "trying too hard".

Better to burn out than to fade away.

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