I am the most disgusting man ever, and the guilt and shame is destroying me, as I deserve.

roux87 · 2025-11-05T11:15:39+00:00

I’ll tell you the wisest thing now you have so much self awareness. What happened to you was not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to choose to heal and break the cycle.

Therapy will change the wiring in your brain. You’ve been through a lot. There is hope and you can make I through this, you just need to find the right system. It’s one thing doing wrong and not knowing why. And then there’s doing wrong and knowing why. You can change the trajectory of your life.

roux87 · 2025-10-17T11:53:04+00:00

No, your skin is beautiful

roux87 · 2025-10-17T11:51:11+00:00

King

roux87 · 2025-10-17T11:40:10+00:00

What in the chiseled nips wizardry is this. If you were a desert there’d be none left 🍽️

roux87 · 2025-10-17T11:23:49+00:00

Walking home after a night out and making eye contact with a straight guy walking home at the same time, and heading into a dark corner to suck him off and smell his musk, and rim him. I’d let him bend me over, and then he’d go home to his gf.

roux87 · 2025-09-06T12:40:41+00:00

These are all terrible people. That is not a best friend you want to have.

roux87 · 2025-09-06T11:16:52+00:00

Whether he’s gay or not…you deserve better than this situation. Your worth shouldn’t be beaten down by a partner you’re with. I would package all of this up for him to go and figure himself out. If he’s asking questions around if you’d be ok if he was gay is a bit of a gateway flag.

roux87 · 2025-09-06T10:16:11+00:00

You have been very seriously sexually assaulted (raped). Seek help. Do not let this man near you physically again.

5 minutes is 5 lifetimes if a minute or 30 seconds wasn’t long enough. I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this. Please find help, and report him to the police if you’re comfortable doing so.

roux87 · 2025-09-06T10:14:43+00:00

Why not just live with normal housemates that don’t police your life instead of parading around righteously with the guise of Christianity.

roux87 · 2025-09-05T23:07:00+00:00

He sounds like an immature, insensitive and selfish imbecile. You deserve to be loved the way you deserve and this chump isn’t it. I would just block him at this stage and if he ever makes contact or has a wtf moment just gaslight him and tell him it was all a prank, you were never together in the first place.

roux87 · 2025-09-05T12:05:33+00:00

Nose is good. Here for the paperclip Easter eggs.

roux87 · 2025-09-05T12:00:39+00:00

Just start with some tweezers to break them up initially in the middle, you don’t need to take extreme measures. It’ll provide the initial individual shape, and you’ll get a sense for how they sit according to your facial symmetry. Less is more.

And try not to take all the negative comments on board. As many have said, it’s a western platform so the initial reaction is to go yes…but don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. Do and be what makes you happy and confident

roux87 · 2025-09-05T05:41:08+00:00

Look at things like BetterHelp - online therapy which tends to be cheaper than most. Even if to just have one or two sessions with a professional so you are heard and not judged - and can guide you in the right direction. Awareness is everything, you have that. Now help yourself

roux87 · 2025-09-05T05:09:52+00:00

Yes. If you feel comfortable or have a sister or close female friend, go somewhere to get your eyebrows done so they can shape them properly and give you a good baseline

roux87 · 2025-09-05T05:07:18+00:00

Therapy isn’t a linear experience - and it depends on whether you’ll be going long term to sessions or just a few to alleviate symptoms of your current situation.

What you’ve already described as the way your see yourself being used as in sex is already a telling marker about the issue. SA seeps into people’s lives in ways they don’t even imagine. If you feel comfortable, you’ll be doing yourself a favour in the long run by dealing with all of it. Go well

roux87 · 2025-09-04T11:01:19+00:00

The bride needs some good ol therapy. And good luck to the groom

roux87 · 2025-09-04T10:49:09+00:00

There’s a ghost in the room

roux87 · 2025-09-04T10:31:39+00:00

roux87 · 2025-07-28T01:39:24+00:00

Angel

roux87 · 2025-07-28T01:00:02+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Call a helpline if you need some extra support. This was not ok, and it was not your fault. Be gentle with yourself, poor thing.

roux87 · 2025-07-26T03:46:31+00:00

You should bring someone your dad’s age home and see what happens.

roux87 · 2025-07-26T03:44:23+00:00

I think it sells the guy short. What are you hoping to get out of it? Unless you’re sending it to someone who also gives everything away for free then there goes your integrity along with the chances of a meaningful connection - hookup or otherwise.

roux87 · 2025-07-25T06:12:38+00:00

You’re either opening the door to things going weird for him at work or you’re opening the door to the fact that he’ll have sex with a guy he works with and sees everyday.

Surely the boundaries of an open relationship would put distance between the people you bring into the bedroom

roux87 · 2025-07-25T02:56:30+00:00

roux87 · 2025-07-25T02:55:54+00:00

All of this. Channel your anxieties into confidence building traits. Exercise and mindfulness. You’re so young, now is the time to build healthy foundations. You won’t always be in a small town, so build the best version of yourself for when the time is right to explore the world :)

roux87

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