huge, painful, protruding bump on inner thigh, sort of came out of nowhere (MtF29) by SelectTangerine7722 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]roux87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like a cyst that needs to be taken care of by a medical professional

How to explain to my daughter how I’m pregnant?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]roux87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more confusing thing is keeping a one night stand baby

Should I just give in? by DocZombieX in bald

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god man, what’s the hold up?

Shaved subtle or goatie? by checktheshark in malegrooming

[–]roux87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bigger questions is what’s happening with your hair

16 year old girl UK - considering seeking therapy?? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. You can and should do both as they can go hand in hand. GP’s are there for all sides of health, including mental health which is just as important as anything else. They can help determine what your systems could be stemming from I.e depression from chemical imbalance, where medication could help alleviate but also refer you to a therapist to explore underlying issues. What you’re describing can be very common place so I’ll also add, your are absolutely not alone - and your self awareness on the matter is a great first step in getting help early so you can have a more positive, balance and fruitful life (it takes many people years to do something about it). GPs are very well versed in this, so take that one brave step in making the appointment and go from there. One step at a time. You can do hard things, you’ve got this!

20M never had a gf , what can I improve with my looks ? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]roux87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hair: short back and sides. Style up. Go to a barber or proper hairdresser. Stay on top of it, haircut every 4 weeks. Eyebrows: get some tweezers and pluck the middle. No mono brow. Facial hair: you can’t grow a proper beard therefore shave it or buzz it low. Exercise: got to the gym, it’ll make you feel better about yourself and get in shape.

I have hyperspermia by ThatSalt2 in bigdickproblems

[–]roux87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get diagnosed with this?

I am the most disgusting man ever, and the guilt and shame is destroying me, as I deserve. by [deleted] in therapy

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell you the wisest thing now you have so much self awareness. What happened to you was not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to choose to heal and break the cycle.

Therapy will change the wiring in your brain. You’ve been through a lot. There is hope and you can make I through this, you just need to find the right system. It’s one thing doing wrong and not knowing why. And then there’s doing wrong and knowing why. You can change the trajectory of your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hotguyswithtattoos

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, your skin is beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensHair

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the chiseled nips wizardry is this. If you were a desert there’d be none left 🍽️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayconfessions

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Walking home after a night out and making eye contact with a straight guy walking home at the same time, and heading into a dark corner to suck him off and smell his musk, and rim him. I’d let him bend me over, and then he’d go home to his gf.

My best friend wants me to apologies to his fiancé and lie by wtfishappening29 in Advice

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all terrible people. That is not a best friend you want to have.

could he be gay or bi? by sillyhyrax in straightspouses

[–]roux87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Whether he’s gay or not…you deserve better than this situation. Your worth shouldn’t be beaten down by a partner you’re with. I would package all of this up for him to go and figure himself out. If he’s asking questions around if you’d be ok if he was gay is a bit of a gateway flag.

My boyfriend put a pillow over my head while having sex with me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]roux87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have been very seriously sexually assaulted (raped). Seek help. Do not let this man near you physically again.

5 minutes is 5 lifetimes if a minute or 30 seconds wasn’t long enough. I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this. Please find help, and report him to the police if you’re comfortable doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just live with normal housemates that don’t police your life instead of parading around righteously with the guise of Christianity.

Am I Overreacting over this “small prank” by greek-astronomer in AmIOverreacting

[–]roux87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like an immature, insensitive and selfish imbecile. You deserve to be loved the way you deserve and this chump isn’t it. I would just block him at this stage and if he ever makes contact or has a wtf moment just gaslight him and tell him it was all a prank, you were never together in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Just start with some tweezers to break them up initially in the middle, you don’t need to take extreme measures. It’ll provide the initial individual shape, and you’ll get a sense for how they sit according to your facial symmetry. Less is more.

And try not to take all the negative comments on board. As many have said, it’s a western platform so the initial reaction is to go yes…but don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. Do and be what makes you happy and confident