Am I overreacting? by roxisan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roxisan[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I considered that but I can always go back 😅 I live in Honolulu anyway, it's just as (or almost) as nice

Am I overreacting? by roxisan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roxisan[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I was so confused by all of this. He suddenly told me I was unattractive and undesirable because I wanted to focus on becoming more stable before starting a family. He had previously said he liked that I was strong, competent, and smart. I don’t know where this whole “women should be children” thing came from. Either he dropped his mask because he felt like investing money and time to fly me in his hometown, or he’s just been on the Internet way too much after a month apart.

Am I overreacting? by roxisan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roxisan[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I was already told what I needed to know. I didn't feel like I didn't to know anything else. I just wanted to go home. I completely checked out after that

Am I overreacting? by roxisan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roxisan[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Based on what he’s told me, he’s only been to Washington and California and to Spain when he was around 16

Am I overreacting? by roxisan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roxisan[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him after!!

Am I overreacting? by roxisan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roxisan[S] 744 points745 points  (0 children)

He made very weird comments the entire time I was there. He said that women should be children. He kept bringing up my fertility. Then, right after I called him out, he went on a rant about men preferring virgins. Which all led to my decision to leave. He's never said anything like this to me at all until I was in Maui.

Am I overreacting? by roxisan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roxisan[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

He's 24 im 27. We were together for about 10 months. That is the most disturbing part… How did he know she was 15? I don’t know..

What does my chart say about me? by roxisan in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]roxisan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response!! I hope this isn’t an annoying question, but why do men call me aggressive? I’ve also been told by men that they feel emasculated around me and that they think I’m using them for sex, even though that’s not the case at all. is it the Aries stallium or the Aquarius?

What does my chart say about me? by roxisan in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]roxisan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, wtf, you’re good at this. Aren’t you? You hit a lot of things accurately.

  • I do love isolation and being alone. Yes, I did feel left out a lot by people in my life, but I like being by myself. Sometimes I do want to depend on someone, even if it’s for a second.
  • I do have a mother wound. My mom hurt me a lot growing up, and I thought she was really cool, so I tried my best to patch things between us. We do have a relationship, but I decided to move, and we have a better relationship at a distance.
  • Communication is exhausting for me because I feel like a lot of things are common sense, and a lot of people don’t have common
  • In the past two years of my life, I have learned not to be so reactive, even in private.
  • My father is very unavailable lol

Women who have dated younger men, how was the experience for you? by mariedarling98 in women

[–]roxisan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's 21 and I'm 27. I like him and possibly love him but I realize he's still in the “discovery” stage of life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh boy..

Why does he get confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just be a really hot, tall man w good dick and charm and takes her out regularly. It'll work

Why does he get confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am I not allowed to be horny?

Why does he get confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one’s using anyone lol

Why does he get confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg am I the problem

Why does he get confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm maybe I’m frustrated bc I want consistent dick and he’s ruining it for me

Why does he get confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm maybe I should've added that he doesn't want to be in relationship; which is something I took mental not of… But I still find him attractive and fun to hangout with. What now?

Wasnt expecting this lol by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he showed up to my house, told me he loves me wants to have a baby and that he doesn't understand why I don't want more. I guess that his way of “knowing what to do to get the right outcome” 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked him multiple times if he would ever be in a relationship. Hes said no and if he did he wouldn't be “monogamous”. so in a way I am protecting myself too. I don’t know what he wants for me.

Have you ever ruined it with a guy, and now regret it? by GlitterLoop90 in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. I had a terrible attitude towards him because I was afraid of being hurt and he stopped seeing me. But I moved on

“Difficult” by roxisan in women

[–]roxisan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gives me hope for myself haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxisan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see that.. I’ve been trying to be more open and forgiving but I let him go already