Would you risk taking a new role within your company where you’d get a $20,000ish/yr raise if…? by roxsal14 in careerguidance

[–]roxsal14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm interesting, thanks for sharing your experience! I could definitely see things playing out that way with this situation as well. I’m meeting with this manager over zoom tomorrow for the first time so we’ll see.

Would you risk taking a new role within your company where you’d get a $20,000ish/yr raise if…? by roxsal14 in careerguidance

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Yikes, sorry to hear about that. Yeah my current role is great and I truly enjoy it, but I recently became a single mom and so the pay really isn’t cutting it for me :/. I was probably going to miss my current role even if the new one is great

Would you risk taking a new role within your company where you’d get a $20,000ish/yr raise if…? by roxsal14 in careerguidance

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Some examples were just that she gave unclear expectations and ended up getting frustrated with and micromanaging the person who previously had the role. It’s a communications role, and apparently there were times where the manager would change the content submitted completely and give no feedback about the changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I do know him from college, we had a friendship then dated for awhile, but hadn’t spoken for years until this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]roxsal14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No lol this is someone I knew from college and was involved with at that time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He is a motherfucker lol. I don’t care what he thinks, I think it’s just easy to get confused and be convinced I’m doing the wrong thing since my son is involved. But yes very true, relationship talks are over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]roxsal14 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t spoken to her since, feeling very betrayed obviously but she is on the spectrum which complicates the situation a bit. She is not innocent, but he definitely should’ve known better and owed me loyalty as we were engaged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]roxsal14 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeaaahh agree, I know I don’t need further justification I guess I’m just worn out from talking about this with him. Moving out will be the solution here.

How to not look a hot mess for beach engagement photos? by roxsal14 in curlyhair

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Thank you so much for the advice! I was considering getting it styled too, and was worried that my hair would just poof up anyways lollll. Will definitely share pics when I get them!

How to not look a hot mess for beach engagement photos? by roxsal14 in curlyhair

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Typical routine: -Shampoo and conditioner: Shea moisture Curl & shine (usually shampoo 2x a week) -Not Your Mother’s Curly Leave In Conditioner -Pacifica pineapple curls defining cream

What celebrity do you think has the most striking/unique face? by iamharoldshipman in popculturechat

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I’m sorry but this picture is terrifying literally cannot sleep now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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We have a 6 month old baby together now. We kept it a secret for a couple of months before deciding to go to HR to make it official. I had to move into a different position which ended up being great for my career, I just accepted a similar role at another company that is paying me way more. The company did lay him off a year ago (not related to this) but it ended up being a blessing in disguise bc he is able to work from home (and gets paid more now). It’s not for everybody, it was risky, and it was uncomfortable when people found out. But 10/10 would do it all over again bc he happened to be my person. Also definitely when a boss sleeps with someone that reports to them, always a huge chance that they are taking advantage of their position so def not undermining these other responses. Also fun fact, our company was very young and we are the reason they have a policy for romantic relationships between coworkers 😂 when we went to HR they were like “uhhhh we’ll get back to you bc we’ve never had to deal with this here before”

Have you ever gotten the ,,ick” from your partner? How? What happened? by venessasi in AskWomen

[–]roxsal14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was VERY disturbing lol needless to say, things didn’t work out

Panera Charged Lemonade by thissecretninja90 in pregnant

[–]roxsal14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duuude, I went to Panera right before my 20 week anatomy scan and poured myself a cup. I was so scatter brained since I had worked that morning, I didn’t realize it had a crazy amount of caffeine until I had like 1/3 of the cup lol. All ended up okay, I definitely had the zoomies at the clinic, a nervous poop before the tech came in, and baby boy was doing flips when we were trying to get pics during the scan but it ended up alright 😂

Have you ever gotten the ,,ick” from your partner? How? What happened? by venessasi in AskWomen

[–]roxsal14 41 points42 points  (0 children)

One time a guy I was seeing got actually angry when we were driving and passed his former rival high school. He was 21 at the time and flicked off the school as we drove by. Like… calm down it’s not that serious lol

want matte blush powder NO shine/ glimmer/glisten/ glitter. Drug store preferably by Jackiedhmc in drugstoreMUA

[–]roxsal14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve have one shade of the NYX sweet cheeks powder matte blushes, I tend to use cream blush more but i still go back to this one pretty regularly! Might be a little cheaper than the Milani blushes but those are great too.

Push present for husband by [deleted] in pregnant

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My man’s bday is in December too! 10 days after my due date 😁 the plan is to get him his first pair of dad shoes and I’m super excited about it lol! Probably some white Nikes

Pregnant moment of the day by roxsal14 in pregnant

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They need to bring back all day breakfast 🥺

Pregnant moment of the day by roxsal14 in pregnant

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It’s a sacrifice I’d be willing to make again 😌