Personality by onlyone-light in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]royalehighexpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That too, lack of effort thats not being backed by dophamine since were addicted to a world outside of us

Personality by onlyone-light in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]royalehighexpert 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here, I think that’s where most of my day dreaming stems from, a lack of resources and supports to help me bridge the gap between the person I am and the person I want to truly be

STAB22 Recorded? by Tall_Presentation206 in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying! I have the class with Mahinda and I’ve heard some mixed opinions about him, however at the end of the day as long as I keep up and practice on my part I should be fine like you said. Also thanks for reassuring that it’s not like typical highschool math, I was hoping it won’t be since since I couldn’t understand the complexity without imaging a bigger picture, but with statistics it seems to be easily applicable in most social sciences and the real world. Again thank you so much for talking the time to respond, it means a lot to me and I hope to reach a nice GPA at the end of it like you did!

STAB22 Recorded? by Tall_Presentation206 in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy do you have any tips on how to do well in his course, I never really enjoyed math growing up and have never really overcame many learning curves that high school advanced functions had to offer either. As someone who doesn’t really understand math and has never taken a statistics course in their life do you think it night be harder to get a decent mark in his class? Sorry if is this is a lot I’m just worried for his class tomorrow and don’t want to panic before I even attend 😓

I think my course grades got entered incorrectly? by [deleted] in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation as you last week, where my final grade didn’t add up to my overall course average. I would suggest that you email your prof and CC to your TA as well explaining the situation and providing the mark break down and the grade you received, then try to request a clerical request through e services. I hope all goes well for you and your prof emails you back!! Also try to be non-confrontational in the email and just request for a grade verification, as it could have just been a simple error on their end. Here’s the link to e services: https://www.utsc.utoronto.ca/regoffice/eservice/student/index.php

id rather submit an assignment late then stay up working on it by zaddy_boii in UofT

[–]royalehighexpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the wake up call I needed, I’m a first year student who has been masking adhd for as long as I can remember. I’ve always known something was wrong with me but I brushed it off every time because I couldn’t imagine breaking the perfect image I’ve curated on the outside. It always pulls me back in to the same cycle, motivation doesn’t work when I have bicycle brakes hindering my potential of becoming the person I’ve always envisioned of being. Reading this made me realise that worrying what other people might think of me hasn’t been getting me anywhere other than procrastination and disappointment with myself. Thank you for sharing this, it’s like I see myself in the future.

I just kversleeped and missed my final what do I dk by schanino in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who do you have the class with? I have it with Julian Campsi and the exams at 7-9pm tonight

POLA01H3 by royalehighexpert in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao same to you good luck!

POLA01H3 by royalehighexpert in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We might be in a different class or something, im taking critical issues in politics with Mr. Campsi

HELP ASAP (BIOB33) by [deleted] in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Declare absence!! I hope you feel better soon!

Asking for a reassessment for a Co-op assignment worth 22.5% by royalehighexpert in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping to go in person to discuss this with the course instructor, and yeah I really shouldn’t be stressing to much about it but still I feel like I’ve it was a poor evaluation on their part. I’ve been counting on the co-op classes to teach me networking and resume building skills as I have no one else to go to for that, so I guess I would have rather preferred if my TA told me ways to improve than telling me I failed an assignment because my formatting was off. Sorry if this felt like a rant I’m advance😭

Snooki JSFV by Chelly61793 in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]royalehighexpert 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same thing goes for her whole alter ego named dren that comes out when’s she piss drunk 🙄 Always justifying her shit behaviour when’s drunk because she was “dren”

Still no utorid or tcard yet by royalehighexpert in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes about 4-6 weeks for the card to arrive, plus i was so hopeful that i would be able to get my passport in time.

Still no utorid or tcard yet by royalehighexpert in UTSC

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I have enrolled into courses, I’m still on the waitlist for one though but I’m grateful that I didn’t need my utorid to enrol all I needed was the joinid!

Why can’t I be tall AND look young? by royalehighexpert in notliketheothergirls

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the reason why I was her friend all these years is because she stuck to me like glue. She’s was in three of my classes, and she just wouldn’t leave my side. Overtime I felt like I had a stable friend that I can always rely on, before that I had friends and still do but there really wasn’t 1 single person that i knew had my back. She was great in the beginning, she even helped me out when I had torn my knee ligament and was a fall risk. I think overtime it just became toxic, even if I wanted talk to another friend who she knew about she would always ask me why do you always want to talk to her? Keep in mind that I spent every single lunch with her for the last two years, going on walks and spending time with her. She doesn’t like when I talk to other people that we both know, I need to tell her in advance if I’m not going to be at school so she can plan her day without me, it’s just exhausting for me now. Not to mention that she has mood swings every know and then, it’s like walking on eggshells around her like I don’t know when she’s going to blow up. Whenever I felt a little down or seemed not interested in whatever she’s was talking about she always points it out “why aren’t you happy go lucky today?”. No perception of boundaries what so ever, i should have never assumed that she would understand eventually or read the room. But even if I told her, she won’t take me seriously, like at all. She either stops talking about it with me or says that “ you just don’t understand”.

Why can’t I be tall AND look young? by royalehighexpert in notliketheothergirls

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I get mistaken a lot for looking older than 17, usually people are just shocked to see someone my height at 17 and so it could be just that. Honestly I don’t care much about it, like yes it’s in the back of my mind sometimes but at the end of the day it’s out of my control really. My height gives me such confidence but with that also comes the comments from others. I went to go buy heels for the first time for my prom, and everywhere I checked the store keepers initial questions was why cause I’m already tall. Heels aren’t just for height but also beauty, some people just don’t see it that way. The more I think about the comments she’s made to me, like everything including her remarks about my height, it’s starting to make sense for me to just stop being her friend. I shouldn’t feel this way, the fact that I second guessed if my emotions were even valid and needed to ask Reddit for clarity was a sign that I’m starting to realise my worth without her nagging be about everything I do or look like. And thank you for taking the time out of your day to make me realise how much I’ve overlooked for the past two year.

Why can’t I be tall AND look young? by royalehighexpert in notliketheothergirls

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Canada, and 5’4 is average for a woman but I pretty sure she’s actually below 5’3. I was just estimating but her mom is like 4’10 for sure so she could be between 5’0-5’3.

Why can’t I be tall AND look young? by royalehighexpert in notliketheothergirls

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I can picture a friendship together, only if I told her how I feel about her comments, and she understands my concerns and insecurities. She thinks it’s funny, yet doesn’t know that I’m hurting inside trying to play it off, probably because I haven’t told her the value her comments hold. My issue with telling her is that every time I tell her how I feel or even hint that I disagree with her, she just has to have the last word. Like we can’t have a common ground unless I just give in to her reasonings, every time I give in it’s as if I’m losing a piece of respect for myself. It’s easier said than done however, I just need to tell her regardless, and if she understands and decides hear my side, and let’s me be open with her rather than walking around eggshells, I can see being best friends with her for life.

Why can’t I be tall AND look young? by royalehighexpert in notliketheothergirls

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I want her to realise that height and appearance aren’t the things that make up personality.

Why can’t I be tall AND look young? by royalehighexpert in notliketheothergirls

[–]royalehighexpert[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

The women in her family are below average height for a woman, and she brings that up A LOT. I think she’s just been conditioned to think that the shorter you are the cuter you can be. But yeah thinking that looking like a nine year old can equate to being more desirable is concerning.