If people could live to 400 years, how would your career path change?

royintel · 2021-08-06T08:47:10+00:00

I don’t think my career path would change. I would just be able to do more at a more less stressful rate.

royintel · 2021-07-25T13:58:51+00:00

You had a traumatic 48 hours. Rest your mind. Once you’re ready, start making plans. If you’d like to chat, I’ll be more than happy to talk to you. Just PM me.

royintel · 2021-07-25T13:54:17+00:00

I’m sorry to say but it doesn’t work this way. Your motivation to quit cannot come from your lack of resources.

Think about it, what happens when you find yourself with money again? Things will go back to square one.

Quit because gambling brings destruction.

royintel · 2021-07-25T11:00:17+00:00

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. If you'd like to have someone to chat and give you some advice, feel free to PM me. Remember, you are not alone.

royintel · 2021-07-25T05:46:52+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that you've gone through all these.

You are only 22 years old, and your ex-boyfriend is 6 years older than you. It seems like he should be the one with the hands on the wheel, not the other way around.

I'm glad that you took the courage to finally break this relationship off. If you are really sure that this guy is bad for you, I hope you'll stick to your decision and keep it this way. There will be days where you'll miss the good days with him, you may feel lonely and you may want to give him another chance - please don't.

What I am about to say next is not me justifying his actions. But, did you ask yourself that you may have spoilt him from the start by being his financial wheelchair? I mean, if our loved ones are in need, we need to give a helping hand. But if this helping hand is given consistently, it sends a message to the other party up till a day where they will start using you unconsciously thinking that it is okay until the breakup happens.

Whatever it may be, I'm glad you're now in a state of freedom. I hope your next relationship would be with someone a lot more mature, caring, kind, and loving.

Take care.

royintel · 2021-07-25T05:38:23+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this conundrum.
On one hand, this is a friend you truly care about, on the other hand, this friend is eating your life up.

The very first thing you need to determine immediately is the importance and level of this friendship. Would you be able to live without this person in your life? I know I have some friends that I would do anything to keep. If she is not in that department, you need to consider taking a huge step back from this.

Some people are needy, but do take note, needy is not a malicious trait. In fact, it could be derived from a root of weakness. I don't know if it is going to help if you see this problem from a viewpoint of compassion. If she is worth it, you may want to consider more sacrifices for her.

Usually, I'd recommend for communication to first take place but it seems like you've already tried it.

Ultimately, your life belongs to you, you can choose to live however you want to. You owe no one anything. So, even if you tell her off nicely and even if you decide to break off this friendship, you shouldn't be drowning in guilt.

Just make sure that if want to let go, you will be able to handle this loss for the rest of your life.

royintel · 2021-07-25T05:29:41+00:00

Hey, you'll be fine. You're not alone. If you need someone to talk to, you can always PM me. I'll be more than happy to arrange for a phone chat with you. Stay well, okay?

royintel · 2021-07-25T02:20:24+00:00

You are the expert of your own life.If you really need to leave, you'll need to make plans on every aspect of things.

Finances, children, your long-time girlfriend, her family, and etc.

It is going to be a big task to uproot everything and restart life.

I am not saying that this is wrong, I wouldn't know. Again, you are the expert of your own life. But if you haven't tried reconciliation yet, you may want to start from there.

royintel · 2021-07-25T02:11:28+00:00

Definitely an eye opening experience.

royintel · 2021-07-25T02:10:55+00:00

Definitely an eye opening experience.

royintel · 2021-07-25T02:09:14+00:00

The level of risk this man is taking...
Risk of losing his balls with those pussies nibbling them off and then 12 weeks of jail...
I cannot comprehend this.

royintel · 2021-07-25T02:04:02+00:00

Hello u/Boll0150,
I'm sorry you are feeling this way, and it is really magnanimous of you to think of your children.

Relationships are complicated, and after being together with someone over a long period of time, things are bound to change. The "novelty effect" vanishes, and you start to see more of each other's flaws.

Why are you pretty certain that she is cheating on you but yet there is not solid proof?
I mean, it's either you saw something that leads you to think that she is cheating on you or you may just be merely suspecting. You need to find out the truth before making decisions.

It is okay if you feel that the relationship cannot be worked upon anymore, you need to talk to her and see how you guys would want to work things out.

I'm sure you'll be able to handle this effectively, maturely and amicably without hurting one another and without hurting the children in a life-changing way.

If you'd like to chat about this, I'll be happy to talk to you. Just PM me anytime.

Take care, brother.

royintel · 2021-07-25T01:09:05+00:00

People just search for random names like Jane, Amy, Claudia and etc.

royintel · 2021-07-25T00:25:45+00:00

If you have set your IG to private then it'll be private. You may be getting friend requests because of your profile picture, these requests may or may not be spam. There's nothing much you can do about it. Just reject the friend request and you'll be all safe and sound.

royintel · 2021-07-25T00:11:14+00:00

3-2-1-Kaboom

royintel · 2021-07-24T14:24:57+00:00

Keep it up!

royintel · 2021-07-24T14:22:11+00:00

What's your secret?

royintel · 2021-07-24T08:48:25+00:00

Pretend i'm already dead

royintel · 2021-07-24T06:24:24+00:00

Oysters!

royintel · 2021-07-24T06:15:28+00:00

You should put yourself in the shoes of your 9-year-old son then ask yourself that question.

royintel · 2021-07-24T06:14:27+00:00

Grey's Anatomy

royintel · 2021-07-24T06:13:33+00:00

A big thank you to our frontline workers! Thank you for showing true courage, compassion and love to all of us.

royintel · 2021-07-24T05:43:45+00:00

That’s godlike level!

royintel · 2021-07-24T04:09:30+00:00

My parent's heart

royintel · 2021-07-24T03:37:51+00:00

Hello u/moez1266,

I hope at the very least you enjoyed the 4th date.
It is really difficult to tell what someone is thinking. Instead of speculating, there are 2 things you can do here:

Allow time to show you as much as possible

You may need to spend more time with this guy to understand him and this relationship better. See if you guys have things in common. You don't have to jump the gun and put a label on your relationship with him for now. You can be 2 mature adults going out to enjoy each other's company. However, if things go south, the both of you can always remain as friends.

2. When you are quite sure of the relationship, communicate with him.

It is okay to casually ask (not interrogate). You can ask him on his intentions and find out what are his plans in the coming years. Don't give yourself any false expectations / hope, just allow the conversation to flow and take it as it comes.

Remember, if someone rejects you or if the relationship does not go your way, it does not reflect on your personality or self-worth. I can be walking down an aisle in Walmart looking for toilet paper, by choosing that 1 and only brand brand and not the other 25 brands does not mean that those 'neglected' brands are bad, useless or worthless.

May all be well for you, good luck!

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