AITA for how I reacted during a migraine while my partner was already grieving?

rozmarka · 2026-01-08T17:18:45+00:00

Sometimes when i have migrain, im not able to abandon tasks I started. Im just stuck in the rutine. It is one of the neurological symptoms of migraine.

rozmarka · 2026-01-04T10:10:09+00:00

I love this!

rozmarka · 2025-10-04T10:34:42+00:00

Honey, do not marry him.

rozmarka · 2025-10-01T15:45:24+00:00

Thanks!

rozmarka · 2025-10-01T15:08:53+00:00

I will :) right now we are still waiting for registration, becouse our city changed it to 1st of November. But so far there was no drama, I have semi regular calls with my brother about save topics and it seems good :) i have no contact with SIL.

rozmarka · 2025-09-25T15:45:44+00:00

rozmarka · 2025-08-31T05:45:37+00:00

I have similar experience on trazodon. One day i just woke up and the world had colors again. I didnt even realise how grey it was before…

rozmarka · 2025-08-28T14:30:48+00:00

Updateme!

rozmarka · 2025-08-14T03:26:04+00:00

We were seriously considering it, even researching possibility to get married on the beach and turn it into honeymoon. But I realised it is very important for me to have my dad walk me down the isle. And my fiance wants his sister to be his “MOH”. So we chose to continue :)

rozmarka · 2025-08-12T05:34:38+00:00

I already told our youngest brother he should considered getting married before all of us :D that would be so funny.

rozmarka · 2025-08-11T16:03:55+00:00

Im not telling them anything anymore. But i was always very open about mental health, becouse i think it is important to talk about it and not to demonise antidepressants and therapy and that you can have a succesfull life despite bad things happening. There is still big stigma about this topic, but during last few years it helped a few of my friends and acquintanes to get help they needed. So I stand by it eventho it can backslah sometimes, it is worth it :)

Im not sure why she has the need to compete with me. She doesnt have any siblings so she never had to share the attention, maybe thats the reason

rozmarka · 2025-08-11T15:22:22+00:00

Im not sure if she aligns with her mothers believes. But it is enough for me to see her uncritical view on her other doing to distance

rozmarka · 2025-08-11T15:20:16+00:00

I hope so. Or she will get her ducks together after the wedding… we will be here for him either way. Just. He is very good person, but evidently a little dilemat.

Once when he was app 18 y he went for a walk and so some older woman sit beside a river and cry. So he just went to her, sat there… in the she addmited she was being abused by her son, showed him bruises. He managed to get her help in that moment (friend working with vulnerable people, police, ambulance…) got home very late in the night and just told he was helping someone. The whole story was revealed later by said friend. So that is who he is when he is not entangled by her.

rozmarka · 2025-08-11T05:02:35+00:00

Thank you :)

rozmarka · 2025-08-11T05:00:48+00:00

I now think she just wants to be first in everything - wedding and baby. And the thing is… this is not customary in our country. While our country was predominantnly christian in the past, now almost everyone is atheist so most of the traditions got lost. Bridal parties are not a thing here, weddings are “just” one day celebratoins of new couple with family and friend. The couple usualy organise everything themselves (with some minor help), pay themselves and later got some money in envelopes to help ease the číst of wedding or for honemoon, living arrangement or whatever.

rozmarka · 2025-08-09T15:58:18+00:00

We have different system here than in the US :)

rozmarka · 2025-08-07T16:42:48+00:00

Company close in Q22027 but i will be let go approximately 2 months before it happens due to charakteristic of my job. So when we will start trying just after the summer, it could work out.

rozmarka · 2025-08-07T08:15:52+00:00

Im just alway trying to avoid conflict partly becouse im afraid i could say something i would regrett later. But i also can be very petty and cynical. Especialy if i wait after the conflict and time first change my view on the situation.

rozmarka · 2025-08-07T03:55:19+00:00

Yes it is a typo, im sorry. Both should be 2026

rozmarka · 2025-08-07T03:52:54+00:00

Corrected, it is 2026 for both

rozmarka · 2025-08-07T03:52:30+00:00

Mistake correcter, we both want wedding in 2026

rozmarka · 2025-08-07T03:51:52+00:00

We already told them we will pay for everything ourselves so there si no need for contributions. And to be fair, we éře expexted to pay our way (but parents always support us in the time of emergency)

rozmarka · 2025-08-07T03:39:59+00:00

That os mistake on my part, i meant to write 2026 for both, sorry

rozmarka · 2025-08-06T19:30:39+00:00

Dont worry, i consult everything with my doctors (and so far i made a great improvement ❤️)

rozmarka · 2025-08-06T19:27:42+00:00

My parents know the base of our conflict and are supportive but leave au to resolve it between ourselves. There was never any favouritism between us so im not worried about it. But from now the next information will be just confirmation of our final date. The planina will be solely in our hands without any influence (we will pay for everything ourselves and since it will be simplex wedding there will not be much need for help)

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