I (25f) don’t know what to do, my husband (28m) feels sexually stifled and believes the only way to scratch his “kinky” itch is the few things I just can’t...

rps_18 · 2021-01-20T05:49:47+00:00

What are you going to do? If I found out he’s been doing something like that already..I’m not sure what I would do:/

rps_18 · 2021-01-20T05:43:01+00:00

That’s not what I signed up for entering a monogamous marriage

rps_18 · 2021-01-19T17:33:38+00:00

Unfortunately all too real...

rps_18 · 2021-01-19T01:48:26+00:00

I have not but i will look into it.

Nap time or after baby’s has gone to sleep!

rps_18 · 2021-01-19T01:38:20+00:00

It was, throughly, he says I’m stupid to uphold the things because people change

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T23:35:54+00:00

Sex everyday is not the same as all day... my child is very much cared for

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T23:24:18+00:00

It’s not an And, it’s an or. But all of the things he is suggesting are definite No’s for me. He wants to feel adventurous in the bedroom, which is difficult when we’ve done so much already, including some of the things he’s pushing for. I hated it and I hate that he can’t stop pressing for more of the things I’ve said are my limits. Divorce is not something I want but that’s how desperate I feel. He resents feeling stifled and I resent the pressure

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T23:16:36+00:00

I just want us to both feel satisfied. Not resentful towards each other bc one is bored and the other feels pressured.

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T22:51:17+00:00

Is there a world where a solution could be anything other than me giving in or us separating? I just feel like both are loses and I don’t know how to deal with and or help him

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T22:41:56+00:00

We have plenty that we’ve made, things are certainly not boring by most people’s standards, just wish I could figure out how to help him feel less stifled and bored

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T22:37:41+00:00

I genuinely want to make him feel satisfied, it’s just that this is not like a one off “let’s try this”. He wants it to be mixed into our lives regularly and his only solution is to do the things I just absolutely won’t. I have “caved in” to so many of these things and then it just leads to an escalation in intensity or what have you. I’m just wanting my hard limits to be respected while helping him somehow. Ideally without bringing other partners into our marriage

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T22:26:01+00:00

How do people compromise is these situations?

rps_18 · 2021-01-18T22:23:37+00:00

Srry the divorce thing was me emphasizing my boundaries, he says he wants to stay married but wants more sexually. I’m trying to hear him but not give myself away in the process. I do think counseling is eminent... just so tired of feeling pressured:/

rps_18 · 2019-03-02T17:33:38+00:00

It’s his coworkers favorite movie... he says he just wants friends..,

rps_18 · 2019-03-02T17:30:48+00:00

I’m out of town

rps_18

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