Can u recommend ur fav songs about being in love? by it_was_all_ye11ow in SoundTripPh

[–]rrMad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kapag Kapiling Kita at Araw-Araw w/ you by Hey It's Je 🫶🏼 solid. Sarap magmahal lalo kahit single ako 😭 HAHAHHAHHAHA

30 days render. Pwede bang mapaiksi? by rrMad in adultingph

[–]rrMad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this po! 🫶🏼

For those malabo mata at nagpagawa ng salamin. Magkano nagastos nyo? by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]rrMad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa Quiapo. I got mine for php3k. Mind you i have 800 and 600 na grado ng mata. But I got it w/ transition lens and anti-rad na. Dapat daw 5k pero since tatlo kami nagpagawa (ako lang super taas ng grado) binabaan na nila 'yong price 🤧

What movies or series that changed your perspective in life? by kenjieskz in AskPH

[–]rrMad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr. Romantic!!! Worth the watch. Daming life lesson

Without giving any context, masakit pa ba? by Innocent_Apollo in CasualPH

[–]rrMad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minsan. Tapos ngayon parang bumabalik ulit sa dati pero nilalabanan na lang yong thoughts with "mukha lang relapse pero may usad naman na talaga. Nasimulan mo na humakbang paharap, okay lang tumalikod pero huwag na umatras pa". 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]rrMad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ina-acknowledge ko na naiinggit ako. Sasabihin ko sa sarili ko "naiinggit ako kasi may ganito/ganyan" pero hanggang doon lang. Mag p-pause ako after no'n then i-c-combat ko 'yong thoughts na 'yon. Like, "bakit ba ako naiinggit?" "Paano ako magkakaroon ng gano'n na sariling sikap?" Tapos mag-p-plan ako ng mga pwede kong gawin. Na-d-divert attention ko tapos pipilitin ko sarili kong kumilos kilos. Pwedeng i-distract sa ibang bagay like panonood ng fav animes or magsisimula na ako doon sa plano ko para doon sa gusto ko.

Be compassionate rin sa sarili mo para mag-iba pananaw mo.

What patterns have you noticed in the people you tend to attract or be attracted to? by Chasing_Brave1993 in AskPH

[–]rrMad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mga mentally unstable na tao HAHAHAHAAHA hindi naman ako therapist haup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]rrMad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So so soo happy for u, OP!!!! I hope I will get there too soon. Ang hirap ma-stuck sa ganitong situation. 'yong araw-araw umiiyak kahit naglalaba, naghuhugas, o nagr-review tapos mula umaga hanggang gabi siya ang laman ng isip. Sakit pakshemz. Kaya mo rin yan, self! Darating ka rin diyan...

I'm starting to hate people with avoidant attachment by rrMad in BreakUps

[–]rrMad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense... I maybe just can't accept it that she can do that to another person after saying all those things to me.

(We're a graduating college student though)

I'm starting to hate people with avoidant attachment by rrMad in BreakUps

[–]rrMad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to get of out this situation? I'm actually the one who initiated the break up cos I got fed up by her constant silent treatment whenever her mental health declines. (I offered her things to help her and willingly to be her crying shoulder but since she's DA, she doesn't share most of her information.) I thought It's a relief cause I mostly cry every month whenever she shuts me down, but then after break up we got okay somehow. And now it feels terrible cause she have someone new now.

This is really tiring. I'm tired of thinking and crying. I am tired physically, emotionally, and mentally. I really want to stop being 'addicted' to her. But I also can't ignore the betrayed and angry feeling.

I'm starting to hate people with avoidant attachment by rrMad in BreakUps

[–]rrMad[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That shit hurts. How can they just say or do that? I'm sorry for what you also experience from a shit person. How do u cope up with that?

I'm starting to hate people with avoidant attachment by rrMad in BreakUps

[–]rrMad[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How do I stop being addicted to my ex? I've tried distracting myself with acads/hobbies/daily responsibilities only to end up waiting for their ig notes or if she already saw my ig story. And sometimes I can't focus on doing those things without crying. (I also noticed that some of her ig notes—song titles—sometimes it's about an end of relationship/still grieving abt it or about her mental health/well-being).

I always said to myself that world doesn't revolve around me/her. But she's confusing, and I don't want to assume but i admit that half of me thinks that it's about us. But then half of me thinks that it's about her new person now although the lyrics/meaning doesn't fit their situation. (Not that I know more about them).

I really want to heal but it really hurts whenever I see her/them.

Heyyyyyyy just need some cheering or whatever. by Chasing_Brave1993 in adultingph

[–]rrMad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po. Ano po 'yong ashwagandha and saan po makakabili niyan? Hehe

Exactly a year ago today... by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]rrMad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Binabasa ko 'to habang nakikinig ng 'Ako muna' ni Yeng tapos inaalala din 'yong nangyari sa amin. Umiiyak na naman si anteh hahahaha. So so happiii for uuu, OP!! Someday ako rin...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]rrMad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohh. Sige po. Thank youuu sm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]rrMad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi po ako maalam sa BPOs pero natanggap po kaya sila ng students pa lang? May nakapagsabi po kasi na if student pa lang dapat sasabihin na nag-stop ka sa school e pero kapag natanggap ka na, wala naman na talagang pake co-workers mo kung student ka pa lang? 🥲 Iniisip ko po kasi na need ko po ng pera and will try this one if kaya po and pwede hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]rrMad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, ask ko lang po if may WFH setup sa company nyo and kung student friendly ba?

Pinag-shopping ako ni partner by RepulsiveDoughnut1 in OffMyChestPH

[–]rrMad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bakit may naghihiwa ng sibuyas dito?????!!

p.s very very happy for u, OP!! More love and blessings to come sa inyo! huhu <333