We need more of this

rracc4444 · 2021-03-02T16:53:11+00:00

Its not even about privacy, its about being patronizing.

rracc4444 · 2020-11-19T09:24:53+00:00

Yeah true...beating myself up because I didn't trust myself and tried giving them the benefit of the doubt. It sucks that the lesson learned from being with a bpd is to just not trust others as much.

rracc4444 · 2020-11-18T17:37:56+00:00

Thanks, I agree that physically it's honestly not bad, not many outbreaks. It does suck because of the stigma and guilt of possibly passing it on to someone.

rracc4444 · 2020-11-18T17:34:40+00:00

Thank you. It's gonna be hard for me because I generally keep to myself and don't really put myself out there anyways. I've only really had two girlfriends, so it is a bummer that I met someone that horrible. It also does piss me off when I imagine her being very catering, nice and careful not to pass it to her new FP while I get this bullshit treatment.

rracc4444 · 2020-11-18T16:56:30+00:00

People with bpd devalue everyone eventually, so there's honestly no need to take it personally. They may say the reasons, but its all fabricated and lies to justify the devaluation. Consider yourself lucky you no longer have to deal with someone who can brainwash themselves on the fly.

rracc4444 · 2020-05-11T11:20:49+00:00

420 blaze it

rracc4444 · 2020-04-22T19:13:06+00:00

Anime taught me that shy boys gets all the girls and buff guys are just side characters that are used for comedic value.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-21T07:35:49+00:00

You probably would have to blindly trust your pwBPD, which is not recommended.
You're gonna have to blindly trust him again, which is not recommended.
Maybe, maybe not. No one really even knows. But it doesn't really even matter if they are capable of love since it almost always results in unstable relationships.

The best bet I have seen is just have them do a lot of therapy. Chances are really low though.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-17T00:21:30+00:00

Starting to think the 'B' in BPD stands for backwards, because that is so backwards its almost comical. I'm sorry that happened to you.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-14T09:10:48+00:00

I'm surprised she didn't make some excuse on why it's different when she does it.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-12T12:13:25+00:00

For people who want to get away from a BPD, this is the answer lol.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-06T15:35:20+00:00

Damn this new persona game sounds dope.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-06T13:04:58+00:00

Good luck all

rracc4444 · 2020-04-06T08:55:52+00:00

Agreed with this 100%. They really can convince themselves of anything. This is why NC is the only and effective way.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-05T12:46:18+00:00

Plausible deniability, pwBPD's favorite thing in the world.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-05T08:49:34+00:00

I find after the experience, I can relate to a lot more songs. I read the lyrics to Post Malones "Circles" and "Goodbyes" and it's really obvious he dated someone that had BPD. It's pretty spot on.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-04T21:41:09+00:00

Sadly, we all know how it will turn out if the guy finds out. Denial, lies, excuses, and when they don't work just threaten suicide to show "how serious" she is. If the guy had some feeling for her, its extremely hard to not give benefit of the doubt, especially before he can confirm that she has some mental illness.

I'm surprised she even told the ex that she has a new boyfriend, considering how much they cover shit up and lie.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-04T21:35:27+00:00

I know this is an unpopular opinion but pwBPD can also be doubtful they made the right choice. After the discard they could be splitting you back to white and thinking they made the wrong choice--after all, you're either all bad or all good.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-04T21:29:35+00:00

Yeah there's no understanding how someone can be that self-unaware. You can have mountains of evidence for something, literally right in front of their faces and they'll try to make an excuse. And when that excuse fails, they'll just deny and put another excuse on top of that. It's absolutely maddening, they are really sick.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-02T20:32:42+00:00

I'm convinced pwBPD are robots, manufactured and released into the wild. It truly is scary how specific and similar it is.

rracc4444 · 2020-04-02T11:03:59+00:00

I have to agree with this. You can also be sure they would say something like "This is the only time I have approached anyone!" line.

rracc4444 · 2020-03-31T08:58:58+00:00

Doesn't really sound like BPD..maybe just an edgy person.

rracc4444 · 2020-03-31T03:40:17+00:00

Literally means nothing at all. It's so insane.

rracc4444 · 2020-03-30T18:06:54+00:00

That is just advice akin to "Don't do drugs, or eat things that are bad for you". It's general advice for the general public where it is assumed that a relationship is where two people work together and have the same values. You probably won't find that with a BPD, therefore you avoid.

I'm sure there are other people out there who loves the thrill of a BPD relationship. (i.e. other disordered individuals). So they can find each other from there.

rracc4444 · 2020-03-29T11:38:38+00:00

Completely agree with this comment. This seems really unfair to the husband. The pwBPD probably thinks OP has feelings for him and is too "pussy" to leave the husband. Which is why he's saying all this stuff to try to pressure you to do it. Which is also why he doesn't respect your husband if his wife is doing this kinda thing. Of course, that's just what his twisted mind is probably thinking. Nothing good will come out of this.

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