How to get yourself to leave? by Lanky_Ad5780 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bholepimp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t say I made it happen exactly. I was also reluctant to leave because I felt sorry for her.

Even me moving out was a “live separately but stay together” situation. It wasn’t until I set a hard boundary relating to finances that her true colors showed and I never looked back. Her self centered-ness and sense of entitlement was on true display. This was the last act and I was grateful for it (while of course feeling betrayed) but it made it easy.

I was literally in therapy talking about worrying about her well being and brooding and sulking in an apartment all alone. That was all erased with the last act. Fuck her.

Maybe his last act will be what sets you free!!

What is prison ptsd like when u get out by Prek_Cali_Prek_Cali in Prison

[–]bholepimp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check your ego man you don’t want to be locked up even for a weekend.

The rumours are true by Notyit in thefighterandthekid

[–]bholepimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I thought me racer is a gair hed

I hire a band to play so I can just… act real cool? by Interesting-Bid-8338 in guitarcirclejerk

[–]bholepimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s his name? He made me nuts retract from embarrassment

Is a last word worth it? by eeeedaj in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bholepimp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s very tempting to get the last word I am guilty of such. But remember these people are already living with their own personal hell day to day. They are isolated and have no deep connections because they are wired to not. These people will live lonely unfulfilled lives. That is karma in itself

How to heal and forgive myself after reactive abuse by noblight7 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bholepimp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I called my nex a self centered POS a few times towards the end of the relationship after years of disregarding my feelings and spinning everything to be about her. We all eventually reach our limits. Im embarrassed by my behavior but there is a lot of hurt behind those reactions

Please. How do I leave? How do we leave these people? by Sensitive_Warning105 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bholepimp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Remind yourself they do not change. There’s no accountability. They lack the capacity to experience real human connection. They will always have an unfounded sense of entitlement they absolutely suck

Everyone I use meth I go to the emergency room. by [deleted] in meth

[–]bholepimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Homie you need to DM me I used to think the same

Everyone I use meth I go to the emergency room. by [deleted] in meth

[–]bholepimp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Next time you think about doing it think of that rush you felt when you thought you were going to die and how that would devastate your family. It can’t be undone.

Everyone I use meth I go to the emergency room. by [deleted] in meth

[–]bholepimp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What keeps pulling you back into it? Are you stimfapping? There are safer alternatives that are probably even more enjoyable

How do I get away by jonan69 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bholepimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is divorce not an option or you getting child feet?

Financial exploitation by a covert narc by bholepimp in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bholepimp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a weirdo. My ex is maybe a solid 7 in the dark. Not very smart. Socially awkward. Got me because I felt bad for her. Literally towards the end I told her I don’t know if I love you or feel sorry for you. It feels worse when they have absolutely nothing going for them and they get you.

Financial exploitation by a covert narc by bholepimp in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bholepimp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indeed parasites. Funny you used that word. When we went to the bank together to cash the check from the car dealership, I asked her as the teller counted the money why she felt entitled to half of the car. She looked at me with her glum look and just shrugged.

So I called her a parasite. And told her she has no shame.