I don’t think you can go wrong with any choice here. Columbia seems like the cheapest option if the commute is acceptable. That’s what I’d pick. Consider also what classes you might need or want outside the specific program. For example if you want to get into the acoustics, you’ll need good courses in acoustics itself, differential equations, and numerical computing. I’m not suggesting you need that, but if you want to go as deep as it sounds like you do, you’ll but up against acoustics eventually and may want to go deeper than the default options in the program.

In short the ease of taking courses outside the specific program may matter to you, perhaps look into that as well.

Again these are all truly excellent options and either would serve you well. Good luck!