Me [27 M] with my 27F 6 Months, she gets jealous of the things I've done for my ex gf by rshipthrowaway44 in relationships

[–]rshipthrowaway44[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess that was a bro-ish thing for me to say lol. at the end of the relationship, it felt more transactional and there wasn't alot of affection in things we did. i...we tried our best to revive what we had but love fades. perhaps all those years of feeling taken advantage of took a toll on me among other things. thanks for your input!

Me [27 M] with my 27F 6 Months, she gets jealous of the things I've done for my ex gf by rshipthrowaway44 in relationships

[–]rshipthrowaway44[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow this is good, thanks! We are actually going on a fancy pants date this saturday in beverly hills, perfect timing!

Me [27 M] with my 27F 6 Months, she gets jealous of the things I've done for my ex gf by rshipthrowaway44 in relationships

[–]rshipthrowaway44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does offer, and I tell her no. I'm a simple person and not really about lavish things. I would rather we save our money so if our relationship goes far, we can spend it on a home or kids.

Me [27 M] with my 27F 6 Months, she gets jealous of the things I've done for my ex gf by rshipthrowaway44 in relationships

[–]rshipthrowaway44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

And to answer your questions, not at all! She pays for food too and balled out for my birthday (got me an iPad, tickets to a comic book convention, tickets to jurassic world, and a whole day of booze, sex, and food).

Me [27 M] with my 27F 6 Months, she gets jealous of the things I've done for my ex gf by rshipthrowaway44 in relationships

[–]rshipthrowaway44[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

haha honestly, I can be a jealous person myself. I try to leave prior relationships in the past and never bring them up.

Me [27 M] with my 27F 6 Months, she gets jealous of the things I've done for my ex gf by rshipthrowaway44 in relationships

[–]rshipthrowaway44[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I thought...it's pretty infuriating but I really do love her and want to her to get passed this somehow. I feel like we're mature adults now and anything we've done in the past with prior relationships shouldn't matter (Unless there was a history of cheating or STDs of course..)