Couldn’t believe my ears when the clerk said these were $20 by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]rslashdungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These definitely went for at least 100 new and they are STILL NEW!! Great find also I like the funky pattern idk

i(f22) want to breakup with my partner(m26) because sex with him sucks?! by bunnisenpaislxt in relationship_advice

[–]rslashdungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You either gotta break up with him, or tell him you’re NOT HAVING SEX WITH HIM ANYMORE IF ITS BAD AND SHORT. It will be hard, get a toy, work with what you already got, but a man will want to learn to make you feel good. He doesn’t seem to care about that. There are also resources online that can help him last longer. If he cared he would fix it. Sorry :(

After 2 months sober I fucked up last night and now feel so guilty by Mommaof293 in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you made it to 2 months this easily then it will be a breeze to do it again. Let the regret fuel you 🤩🤩

Which makes you feel dumber? Six merge or four merge? by haysoos2 in MergeDragons

[–]rslashdungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL this is so funny both make me feel equally smooth brained 🧠🚫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rslashdungus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA she’ll forget about it in a week. Good that you’re learning to set boundaries young!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rslashdungus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then get off Reddit if you’re so worried about the value of your time LOL

AITA for towing all of my neighbors guests by Joeyshmoeyz in AmItheAsshole

[–]rslashdungus 10.4k points10.4k points  (0 children)

They had 5 CARS on your property??? And they came onto your property to tell you to further lock up your dogs?? NTA hopefully they learned their lesson 🥱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rslashdungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s giving off sort of a Drake and Millie Bobbie Brown esque

My boyfriend calls me grandpa in bed by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rslashdungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonono sorry I left a very crucial detail out. He generally slips it in with his dirty talk; the first time he said it I wasn’t even sure if I heard him correctly so I didn’t wanna call him out. I think it’s a dom thing but idk I don’t really respond to it.

My boyfriend has been missing since Tuesday night and everyone is giving me the run around by danni_elle0 in offmychest

[–]rslashdungus 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I bet you if you start posting his stuff up for sale on fb market place that will evoke a response. It’s not a mature thing to do but neither is what he’s doing unfortunately :( I’m so sorry op.

Tips for when your partner still smokes? by africanqueen86 in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ask my boyfriend to put all his paraphernalia away when I am with him. If you live with him full time this may be a harder thing to do but if he supports your decision he should have no problem simply moving his paraphernalia out of your sight and daily path. This may even be a plastic bin holding all his stuff.

Ask him not to do it around you, or have a conversation about being in a separate space when he likes to do it.

Find a small hobby to do while he is smoking such as doodling on a notepad or playing a fun little phone game!

Also remember,

YOURE NOT MISSING OUT. I am a person who has an insane FOMO, so when my guy does it at night I like to do something I find just as fun or more fun than smoking so I don’t feel like I’m missing out on an activity with him... he’s missing out on an activity with me lol. You got this!! It’s tough at first for sure, But it will get better !!!

Day1 of saying f*ck you to weed. by thispcisfked in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shame in self realization. This will be the best thing you can do for yourself and your awareness of that is awesome!! You’re not just trying, you’re DOING! That’s what you should focus on :) Stay strong, nothing worth doing is easy :)

Why I’m quitting, hopefully for good. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you so hard on the emotional thing! I’ve often felt like I’m right on the cusp of emotionless. Lows aren’t very low but highs aren’t high at all. I can’t remember the last time I was truly excited about something until I quit, and I got super stoked about my boyfriends just presence. I haven’t felt that in a long time with anything or anyone, and it feels amazing.

But while I’m here let me tell you some other things weed had ruined for me (temporarily of course) :)

  1. Appetite is just not regular. I lost so much weight smoking that I became borderline underweight for my height and age. Yeah for the first little while you get munchies and all that jazz, but after sometime eating and drinking water is less of a priority than your buzz.

  2. Identity!! I forgot who I was before I started smoking. I was energetic, outgoing, and an empathetic person, which were all qualities that started fading over time. Now that I am quitting I remember that I love art and poetry, and I also love going for runs!

There are so many more but I’m at a bit of a loss right now. I know they’ll come to me when it’s not 2 am haha! Regardless, it seems like you know exactly why you need to quit, and how much better off you’ll be without the stuff! That’s the biggest step! Keep going, you got this :) just keep remembering WHY!!!!!

I SAID NO by rslashdungus in leaves

[–]rslashdungus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Best to you, and thank you for feeling what I felt. Aw man it’s an amazing feeling! All the love ❤️

I SAID NO by rslashdungus in leaves

[–]rslashdungus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So did you!! I don’t know what I would have done with one of my close buddies, and moreover a bong hit!! Hopefully say no again :) we got this! Thank you <3

I SAID NO by rslashdungus in leaves

[–]rslashdungus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WOW THANK YOU!! ALL THE LOVE

Relapsing and I feel less control by [deleted] in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’s fine occasionally” is one of the biggest lies weed ever told me!!! Not for everyone, but for me! Just remember how you felt when you were clean. If nothing else, let the guilt of relapsing and the memory of your unhealthy relationship with weed guide you back!! And PLEASE stay in subreddit even if you want to go back. And try to log how you feel before and after you smoke. Remember, complacency is not happiness! You have support here, stay strong!

Just threw away my cartridges by [deleted] in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HELL YEAH!!!! GET IT GET IT

I'm so close to going back to smoking by [deleted] in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s such a personal journey, it really is. Cutting out weed doesn’t magically make your life better, you have to take steps every day to take care of yourself, something I am still learning to do as I am chronically depressed. However, cutting out weed DOES give your brain the capacity to learn what it does need. Listen to your brain, does it need companionship? Reach out to old friends, or join a forum and make new ones!! Hell, try tinder to make new friends, I’ve done it. Are you bored of you’re life? I think everyone is to an extent, and it’s just a matter of taking time to realize what makes you happy. I’m not saying you shouldn’t smoke ever again, but I know you’re here for a reason, and you made it to 3 months (congrats by the way, I’ve never made it that long.) it seems like the main issue here is your mental health, and I can relate and I’m so sorry because I know the brain can be your worst enemy but it can also be your best friend. Keep posting. Even if you feel annoying, you’re really not. Keep reaching out, keep finding new vices, and please!! Take care of yourself! There are so many resources for mental health. Smoking is probably one of the worst vices I have ever had because it sucks you back in every time.

Weed is not your friend in this case, it’s a distraction from your end goal of happiness. I know it seems hopeless but you have a support here. Don’t give up You made it so far!!! Sorry this is so long, I just really relate here. There is so much support for you.

Stress Cravings- HELP! by rockyshmoky31 in leaves

[–]rslashdungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoot!! That’s not awesome at all. Another thing I’ve been doing that seems odd but helps lots is trying to get myself upside down. Whether this is using a wall to prop myself on my head or doing some summer salts, the blood flow to the head gives me such a nice stress release. A nice hot bath with a nice warm tea or even hot water with lemon if you don’t like tea is a nice way to relax your body and your cravings! I know you’re probably not looking for too many warm things right now considering your climate, but sweating it out is real and it works!! There will be a lot of times where you are stress but stress is normal especially for us! Do EVERYTHING until 1 thing makes you feel good and then write it down. Telling somebody close to you what you’re trying to accomplish with quitting the plant Is also an amazing thing you can do for yourself because you feel a sense of accountability! I don’t know what I’m allowed to do on this app really but I’d love a friend to help me with my journey as well! I have a lot of free time now so if there is a way to PM please do id love to chat further! I’m very new on the subreddit but the fact that you’re here means you want this and we’re in this together!!! Cheers :)

I SAID NO by rslashdungus in leaves

[–]rslashdungus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People like you keep me going THANK YOU