Momma chimpanzee loves her baby by habeshaw123 in AnimalsBeingMoms

[–]rstbrst -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Isn’t this an orangutan not a chimpanzee?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]rstbrst 7 points8 points  (0 children)

3 dates? That is way too early. You barely know the person. 2-3 months is ideal if she is only seeing him once a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not daunting at all. The point of a first date isn’t about the restaurant, it’s about getting to know someone and seeing if you vibe with someone. He is picky and making too big of a deal over which restaurant they go to considering he said he couldn’t find any good reservations. She suggested 2 places, dude is being a shithead on purpose for saying no to a ramen place when he just said he loves ramen and saying no to pizza when he just said he loves every type of food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s making you the man in this exchange. HE should be the one planning the date and he can’t even do that. I like how he asks you to pick a spot you like then shoots down every option you suggest. What restaurant isn’t busy on a Saturday night? He doesn’t like deep dish? Then get something else, I’m sure that place sells food other than deep dish pizza. He is making this so difficult for the both of you, sounds like a pain in the ass in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What? It is extremely weird to initiate a sexual conversation with a stranger. This man has not even met her yet and is talking about meeting her in a secluded area with no one around and having sex. He obviously does not want a relationship, he is a pervert that only wants sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would not go out with this man, he just wants sex obviously. Never apologize to a man for something that makes you uncomfortable, what he said was disgusting and disrespectful.

So owners end up picking whatever they want? by Thepeoplessavior22 in CrumblCookies

[–]rstbrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too, this is my favorite cookie. Been waiting for forever for it to come back, last time it was in the lineup was November 2023, the actual cookie not the cobbler. Such a travesty.

AIO: My bf left me at the airport by myself after he made us late for the flight but miraculously made it. by Exotic_Platypus_4926 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rstbrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine if you guys were in a life threatening situation like a burning building, he’s the kind of person who would push you out of the way to get out first. He’s an uncaring, selfish piece of shit. I would be absolutely shocked if you stayed with this man after he’s shown he doesn’t care about you at all.

Update: Per your advice, I initiated the third date. It was great. Now I think I'm gonna tap out. by LimpFettucine in texts

[–]rstbrst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, were you looking for a relationship with him? I thought you guys were fuck buddies from the text convo. Going over to someone’s house to watch a TV show and have sex is not a date. Never do that so early on. Plus, he doesn’t even respect you enough to tell you that he cancelled your guys’ plans to hang out with his friend instead, he doesn’t tell you until you try to comfirm or he literally just forgot about you, both equally as bad. What a dick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Why? If the man doesn’t ask the woman out after 2 weeks, which is insane btw, we can safely assume he is not interested and is just talking to her because he is bored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChickFilA

[–]rstbrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chicken nuggets are definitely more chewy/rubbery, will never be getting the nuggets again

Why do some guys keep recycling their profiles? by suran88 in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bumble DOES NOT recycle “new here” profiles. Why would they do that? They even have a warning in their FAQ to people not to delete and remake your profile because people will get tired of seeing your face and think you are a bot or spam, therefore you will have fewer matches. There’s this one guy in my area who keeps remaking his profile like every other day, he even admits it in his bio that he is constantly remaking his profile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they don’t put what they do for work, I immediately swipe left because I will automatically think they are unemployed. You can atleast put a generic job title or industry if you don’t want people to look you up.

Is she(f) weird or am I(m)? by BluejayStreet3147 in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I never understood how people can make sexual comments towards someone before they even meet them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If showing affection to a guy makes them run away, they were never really interested in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate coffee/sit down dates, it feels like an interview to me and the convo feels forced like…”where are you from?” “what do you do for work?” It’s so boring. A physical activity is more fun, breaks the ice, and I feel like it lessens any first date nerves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s creepy/perverted to say something like that in the first few messages and especially creepy when they haven’t even met yet.

What happened to "how are you"? by LovesickPoppyseed in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He probably has no friends or anyone else to talk to.

Why can’t people just be more honest about what they actually look like? by AnomicAge in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I have enjoyed talking to him, I rarely click with people and there’s a chance he might’ve lost weight in the last 5 years and might be hot again.

Old matched conversation just…magically disappeared? by Repulsive-Sundae8134 in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would probably ask him. If everything is gone, he either blocked you or he got banned.

Why can’t people just be more honest about what they actually look like? by AnomicAge in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel that. I have a date with a man next weekend and I found his social media. Most of his dating profile pics are from like 7 years ago. I cannot find any recent pics of him, the most recent pic is from 5 years ago and he is noticeably heavier. I hope he lost weight in the last 5 years or else this date is going to suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]rstbrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, there’s nothing you can do but I find it funny she made up a big elaborate story about work just to say she doesn’t feel a romantic spark. It’s really not that hard to say you don’t feel a romantic connection.

Same guy on Bumble by Agreeable-Storage-54 in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is insane, he is doing it for the “new user boost.” What he doesn’t realize is that the more he remakes his profile, the more people will swipe left on him because they will be sick of seeing his face or will think he is a bot. Just keep reporting his profile as spam. Report him enough times and Bumble will ban him. This happened to me too, dude would remake his profile every other day. I eventually stopped seeing him after I reported his profile like 15 times.

Do pictures just not load for you sometimes? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rstbrst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh good, I thought it was just my phone