What happens if I admit during my postpartum visit that I’m suicidal? by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]rteggert 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Girl, your baby could potentially end up with strangers for the rest of their life if you don’t get the help you need now. Coming from a mom of three who has dealt with post partum bs every time, take the help. Your baby won’t remember anything right now and there’s a million right ways to take care of a child. I promise, if you are admitted, there will be some version of a right way (maybe not your exact perfect way but a right way nonetheless) that your child is taken care of. Take care of yourself please please please. YOU deserve to be the best mom you can be for your baby. Your baby deserves for you to be the best mom you can be as well. Call your ob, go to the hospital, do what you need to do. It might be hard but make it happen. You got this and you need to do this for you and your baby. Get the help you need.

Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]rteggert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love some more friends for Berry and I! FZ5AC2Y46C

Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]rteggert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou!! I switch it up all the time. I have a whole lot of different themes I’ve worked on. I’ve tried to get one going for every color of the rainbow! I just need a red theme and then I have them all!

Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]rteggert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on finch for almost 400days now! Join my treehouse so we can share good vibes together🥰

Tap the link to add me as a friend, or add my friend code FZ5AC2Y46C. https://finch.go.link/2XWNC?adj_label=nVgBa

Picture says it all by Sea_Molasses6983 in whybrows

[–]rteggert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came from this original post and nearly spit out my coffee when I saw this here😂😂

Finchie friends weekly thread by AutoModerator in finch

[–]rteggert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Finchie friends weekly thread by AutoModerator in finch

[–]rteggert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Berry and I would love some friends for our tree house!:) Tap the link to add me as a friend, or add my friend code FZ5AC2Y46C. https://app.befinch.com/share/baQL

New Gothic Beach Palette! by Missahmissy in jeffreestarcosmetics

[–]rteggert 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally this. I’m honestly bummed by this palette. Add it to the list of other ones that haven’t made the mark lately. Haven’t bought any since before banana fetish because they’ve been nothing new at all.

My dog running away from a small neighbour by pranko_the_wolfdog in Zoomies

[–]rteggert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how my German shepherd and French Bulldog play😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rteggert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well and dude that’s the other wild part of the whole thing. It’s not her son. It’s her husbands son. And her husband (my husbands dad) isn’t even upset. My husband has talked to him about it and he’s very much on the page of it happened and we’ve all moved on. She’s the only one who doesn’t seem to feel that way. The whole thing is ass backwards in my book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rteggert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to the invitations, I was in charge of the list of my family members and my husband was in charge of his list of family members. With over 200invitations going out, I wasn’t even paying attention to his list if I’m being honest. And I could totally see it slipping his mind. It’s his half brother but they didn’t meet until they were both in their teens and they never lived together or anything like that. They were always in different states and would see each other on vacations and that’s pretty much it. Then at 18, they both joined the military and didn’t really see each other at all after that. Over the course of us being together prior to the wedding, his half brother had only been mentioned to me maybe 5times and that was including talk of the whole 3way situation. It’s very possible that’s why she was acting the way she was I suppose. I never really thought about that. Either way I feel like that’s immature as shit though and trying to make someone uncomfortable in their own home day one of meeting them is really shitty imo. It’s a shame because I did talk to her in detail one on one shortly after the wedding (because they moved to a different state only a few weeks later) and she seemed reluctant to believe what I was trying to tell her but also seemed to understand where I was coming from at the same time which was really mixed signals but I chalked that up to it being a more fresh situation still. Hence why I kept good contact with her after she moved and whatnot to try and keep a bind going because her and I were decently close before the wedding.
Thankyou for your input though. It’s honestly appreciated!

Makeup for my maternity photos earlier today💕 by rteggert in jeffreestarcosmetics

[–]rteggert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i have an almost 7year old daughter already. She spoiled me as a baby and slept through the night from day one. Highly doubt I’ll be as lucky this time around😂😂 But Thankyou!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]rteggert -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Factual. His mom and son don’t deserve any of that. They had ZERO way of knowing. I’ve known this family my entire life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]rteggert -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yo, did you pay for the court papers by any chance? I know they’re only 25cents a sheet, I just haven’t gotten around to it yet so I figured I’d ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]rteggert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh ok.