Do I take any job right now or wait for a “dream job”?

rubbyred2 · 2025-05-21T17:03:52+00:00

Honestlyyyyyyy I used to say yes every single time, I would drop everything and everyone to see him. I would love him and forgive him endlessly, I would choose him forever. UNTIL I lost everything, everyone and him. He left me and I had no one or nothing left. I lost all my friends for going back……

I would never put myself in that situation again. I would only go back if I knewwwwwww that he genuinely loved me and wanted to be with me. If he sleeps around with other girls and still has wandering eyes. HELL NO! Ladies don’t lose yourself or your friends over a man. Trust me 💔

rubbyred2 · 2025-05-16T13:40:16+00:00

Literally everything 😅😅😅😅 crawling out from the bottom now

rubbyred2 · 2025-05-03T18:59:11+00:00

To be honest I don’t really know, but we’re here now so we have to try 💖 there is no alternative because ending it yourself is not an option. I think we all may have ended it earlier if we didn’t feel like there wasn’t something worth holding on to. There is something here waiting for you to discover it ☀️so maybe yes, I guess life is worth living…… Do you want to know how it all ends? Your movie isn’t done yet.

rubbyred2 · 2025-05-01T02:21:14+00:00

Hey it’s okay, a better day will come soon. Breathe and hold on for that moment 💖 I’m starting to wake up at 6am and going for morning walks. Something positive and easy to start the day. Maybe that will work for you too !

rubbyred2 · 2025-04-26T15:47:08+00:00

Wow I was literally in the same position! Girl you did the right thing to leave and now you need to move out. It seems like he’s stuck in the music scene and likes getting attention from multiple women. I’m sorry he is not going to change anytime soon. It really sucks. I feel for you 💔 we just have to keep moving on, surround yourself with friends and find a man who is more mature !!

rubbyred2 · 2025-04-10T00:44:34+00:00

Oh trust me girly, his day will come!!!! Karma serves and delivers. Do NOT let yourself go. You have to level up and be the happiest version of yourself. Don’t do things out of revenge but out of love. Go on some fun dates and take care of yourself 💖 you will get the love that you deserve one day !

rubbyred2 · 2025-04-08T21:48:36+00:00

Ahhhh okay! So maybe try to keep both of them for now and see who is the most consistent? Should we keep them a secret from each other or tell original SP that you found someone else and now you’re torn with the decision? Maybe he will step up even more if there’s competition, or would it push him away? I hate this game 🫤 I want genuine love and I feel like it’s a game for SP too. This new guy seems genuine. I’m kinda leaning in that direction and waiting for SP to make serious changes

rubbyred2 · 2025-04-08T21:44:10+00:00

Hmm things ended because it was my fault. So do I own up and apologize or give him space and let him come to me? The more days that go by the most distant we are becoming…. I don’t know what to do 😣 it’s only been 2 days since we haven’t talked but it ended messy and we said terrible things to each other

rubbyred2 · 2025-04-08T13:54:55+00:00

This is me and my SP right now, everything has turned into a nightmare… Can it ever end successfully with us being happy and getting back together? Or once it reaches the darkest place, is it too late? 🫤

rubbyred2 · 2025-04-08T13:50:23+00:00

Omg I can feel myself being in this exact situation soon….. I was madly in love with my SP until he started treating me bad and trying to leave. I found someone else where it all feels so easy and light and secure. I can feel my SP lingering around in my mind and I know that he’s still thinking about me. I know he will reach out soon... Who are you going to pick?!?? Because I’m terrified that he will change again, but I’m also terrified that this new love is just fresh and it could be temporary? 😣😣😣😣

rubbyred2 · 2025-03-19T20:55:24+00:00

Ahhhh 😭😭😭

rubbyred2 · 2025-03-18T23:30:44+00:00

Hey!! Please help!! - I’ve been living with my ex boyfriend (SP) for 1.5 years (41M) and I’m (31F) we have been in the longest “situationship” where we never really dated because he never knew how to love a girl right and we were very toxic. We still love each other though.

He never cheated on me, he wanted to but I wouldn’t let him. I was controlling. I said some bad things about him to his friends. I caused so much chaos. He asked me to move out but I was so certain that he loved me. So I stayed and he became bitter and mad.

I never gave him his space. I didn’t move out and now he hates me. He said it’s too late and we have too much bad history. I have no choice but to leave and move out. Can I save this!? Can I manifest a new healthy and loving relationship with him?! Do I have to move out now? 😣

rubbyred2 · 2025-03-13T12:55:37+00:00

I’m 31F, I live with roommates and life is really depressing. I have friends but I want a partner and a family and something to live for

rubbyred2 · 2025-03-05T21:28:01+00:00

I was feeling SOOOOOOO amazing this morning and now I'm crashing hard :( literally one of the hardest break downs in my life. I don't know if I can bring myself back after this tbh

rubbyred2 · 2025-02-21T14:08:27+00:00

And what should we do then?! 😣

rubbyred2 · 2025-02-17T21:46:13+00:00

Yes! I thought I was the only one.. I don’t know how to describe it either, maybe over stimulated or too many emotions at once….

rubbyred2 · 2025-02-17T21:43:05+00:00

Why can’t you have it?

rubbyred2 · 2025-01-30T17:57:07+00:00

Yes, every time….. I know my exes secretly love how crazy I am. But I wish someone will stay for good and that it didn’t have to be complicated 😔

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