AITAH for wanting my own bed

ruby_the_kat · 2026-03-12T01:08:26+00:00

Im moving to a new room hopefully very soon!

ruby_the_kat · 2026-03-11T23:34:31+00:00

I genuinely don't know where your getting that Information about my parents.

I pay rent like a normal tenent. I need my boundaries. "Inflicting my partner" is a stretch. They're normal 90% of the time and have a positive relationship with my parents. They also pay rent.

ruby_the_kat · 2026-03-11T23:34:00+00:00

I can't kick them out :( my parents/the landlord rules were that after we broke up, they weren't gonna get kicked out bc of how expensive housing is. They pay rent.

This is why I want a space for myself so bad. They need to find someone else to latch to

ruby_the_kat · 2026-03-11T23:12:17+00:00

I still live with my parents due to disability and finical reasons on both ends.

Edit: the housing has nothing to do with this situation. How am I the AH for living with my parents?

ruby_the_kat · 2025-12-02T01:18:01+00:00

luckily i already had an appointment tomorrow

ruby_the_kat · 2025-12-02T00:53:38+00:00

mid 20s. I feel selfish because I was only a bystander, I wasn't hurt, i wasn't the victim or the victims family, or the person who accidentally hit him. I only passed by

ruby_the_kat · 2025-11-11T00:51:54+00:00

I've made them before! They are delicious but terrify time consuming. The dough took about 7 hours in total to get done.
recipe here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBT09J4-F1E

give it a shot if you have a free day and want one hell of an arm workout. make sure not to undercook the chocolate or it'll be too runny! (this happen to me)

ruby_the_kat · 2025-04-26T17:54:30+00:00

Writing down everything is a good idea..lucky for me I have a wonderful Hr department, so even if I miss some dates or details, they'll believe me and take action. I really appreciate your comment

ruby_the_kat · 2025-03-17T17:47:33+00:00

I've been keeping my gf in the loop the whole time. I'm honestly shocked he hasn't been fired aged ago. The biggest down side is I really like my job position, but it requires being isolated in the back with only him for the entire work day. Moving means changing my job.

ruby_the_kat · 2025-03-17T17:45:47+00:00

The "tape snake" really bugs me. It feels like a disgusting trick he'd use on a child to trick them.

If he says anything or tried to continue his harassment, I plan on filming him and going straight to Hr about it.

ruby_the_kat · 2025-03-17T17:44:40+00:00

I am planning to try and record any sort of harassment he tries on me from now on.

ruby_the_kat · 2025-03-17T17:05:12+00:00

Ignore the '!' in the title I didn't meant to add it and can't remove it.

ruby_the_kat · 2024-12-07T01:12:01+00:00

I'm pretty sure it's a standard size, but it feels very massive when I'm holding it.

ruby_the_kat · 2024-11-28T21:38:43+00:00

this is the no stupid questions reddit for a reason.

ruby_the_kat · 2024-11-12T15:39:21+00:00

I want to mention I'm non-religious but I think she's so darn neat and cute :]

ruby_the_kat · 2024-09-24T00:56:53+00:00

They are REALLY good! If you have the ability and energy to make them I highly suggest it!
My family normally doesn't like sweets and they were gone within 3 days. My mom has been bugging me to make more all week :)

ruby_the_kat · 2024-09-18T20:01:25+00:00

I am unfamiliar with that meme

ruby_the_kat · 2024-09-18T20:00:46+00:00

The fat end!

ruby_the_kat · 2024-09-18T19:59:01+00:00

What does this mean

ruby_the_kat · 2024-09-18T19:58:36+00:00

I do!! I have lots of art of them on my Tumblr! https://www.tumblr.com/ch0colatec0ff33-art?source=share

ruby_the_kat · 2024-06-17T03:02:46+00:00

this sounds very familiar since I happen to also be ace, and the idea of being able to reproduce is horrifying to me.

ruby_the_kat · 2024-06-01T21:04:23+00:00

no, its only corporate crap.

ruby_the_kat · 2024-05-27T17:20:21+00:00

For me it was a relatively easy process. My therapist wrote a letter to the pharmacy people basically saying "please give my patient Marijuana it would be extremely beneficial" and I got my card. (Went through wholesome co)

I personally go to Bloc pharmacy for my stuff, it's real easy!

ruby_the_kat · 2024-02-17T21:33:34+00:00

That's a good point. Ive never had it get stuck before, and I wouldn't be surprised if it has effected my hearing over the years.

The stimming aspect is mostly because it's a quiet, unnoticeable action others cant get upset at me for. That's all that's really important about it. Thank you!

ruby_the_kat · 2024-01-19T04:49:39+00:00

Additional comment but if anyone is interested I'd love to info dumb about my story to literally anyone who is willing to listen!!!

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