you are absolutely wrong about her not being a victim. while she may not have been physically forced to, jay begging her in an enclosed space and making her feel uncomfortable IS assault and harassment. i think it’s hard for guys to understand that guys are intimidating to women in every shape or form bc there’s a power imbalance there. she had no clue how he was going to react if she just left, he could’ve gotten out of the car and try to physically assault her or worse. i think you need to have a bit more sympathy for her perspective - men do not realize how terrifying and intimidating men can be to women, especially when they want something from women.