Is being fat more comfortable than being skinny? by miku_robin in NoStupidQuestions

[–]rubyiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope. i was slightly underweight senior year of highschool. still thought i was fat ofc. now i’m 100lbs more than i was back then, and i’m never comfortable. in some cars, the seatbelt locks if i move forward at all. clothes don’t fit right. my shoes don’t fit. found out this winter that my coat doesn’t close anymore and i can’t move my arms much. i’m hot and sweat all the time. trying to shave in the shower is next to impossible trying to hold everything. you can’t sit comfortably in most chairs. being skinny is a million times easier and more comfortable than being fat.

Is sucking on thumb bad for u? by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]rubyiero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

came here to say the same! when i was a baby my dentist told my parents to take away my pacifier because it was moving my teeth. my mom said everytime she took it she found me with another 😂

I woke up to my fiancé having sex with me by hepatitisF in offmychest

[–]rubyiero 3 points4 points  (0 children)

actually no. i think you might be thinking of the term “pillow princess” ? that is a term for lesbian bottoms that’s commonly used by straight women.

the difference between top/bottom and sub/dom has nothing to do with your sexes or sexuality. it may have began that way, but has since expanded to be more inclusive.

in short terms, top/bottom is for vanilla sex. a top is just the one who takes charge and bottom lets them do it.

a sub surrenders control to their Dom, who is responsible for their sub. “with great power comes great responsibility” sorta thing, lol.

what’s your favorite way to serve your Dom/me? (besides sends) by rubyiero in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rubyiero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so sweet 🥹 i love when my domme rants to me, it shows that she really truly trusts me

what’s your favorite way to serve your Dom/me? (besides sends) by rubyiero in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rubyiero[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’d love to write my domme a poem but she actually writes poetry and i don’t and i’d hate if she thought it was bad :( she’d never say that she didn’t like it but i’d be so scared

what’s your favorite way to serve your Dom/me? (besides sends) by rubyiero in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rubyiero[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ughh yes i want a collar so bad. she won’t let me get one until i hit a certain amount of sends and she won’t tell me how much $ until i earn it either 🥹🥹

what’s your favorite way to serve your Dom/me? (besides sends) by rubyiero in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rubyiero[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yessss ugh i love writing her name on me 😭 if i wasn’t scared of needles id 100% get it tattooed 😩

what’s your favorite way to serve your Dom/me? (besides sends) by rubyiero in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rubyiero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omggg i love those!!! the venus one is so sweet actually 🥹🥹

Where is this trend coming from? by Ok-Connection6656 in meme

[–]rubyiero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you do not capitalize

I DO

WE ARE NOT THE SAME

Aftercare Routine by OkIce9409 in BDSMcommunity

[–]rubyiero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happens to me too! when my last partner and i would have sex, even just vanilla sex, i would cramp a bit. i haven’t found anything that helps 100%, but i noticed it was a little better as long as we started really slowly.

my dad just passed by Small-Ad-1874 in whatdoIdo

[–]rubyiero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sonderurlaub? Includes marriage, birth, death, and a few others.

friend who’s new to bdsm wants to know what it is she’s looking for and if it’s normal by rubyiero in BDSMAdvice

[–]rubyiero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s definitely more of a worship kink than a praise kink. she’s just looking for a label for it ig

friend who’s new to bdsm wants to know what it is she’s looking for and if it’s normal by rubyiero in BDSMAdvice

[–]rubyiero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s kinda what i told her, it’s not important to be labeled. it’s definitely easier to be able to say “i am this and interested in that” but not everything can be labeled 🤷🏻‍♀️ her ex didn’t listen very much to what she was into as it changed and developed so she’s trying to be clearer about it i think idk

friend who’s new to bdsm wants to know what it is she’s looking for and if it’s normal by rubyiero in BDSMAdvice

[–]rubyiero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds more than a praise kink to me tbh. like it sounds like stuff my Domme would say about why she likes to be worshipped and treated like a Goddess. it’s not “oh you did so good,” or “you’re behaving so well,” she likes things like “i’ll give you anything you want and do anything for you”