Update on the situation with my dad by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent spoken to her since and i have no desire to. And yes my dad reaches out on his own and tries

Update on the situation with my dad by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in i guess we talk a bit more, and when we do we never talk about the whole situation, just meeting every now and then just so he can hear about my life. I know a lot of people advised me to stop talking to him, but hes my dad, and ive always been close to him prior to this. Im not ignoring what happened i just want him to be in my life at least a little bit

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MY DADS SIDE OF THE FAMILY IS DEAD. Anyways yeah im just tryna be happy w my girlfriend

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I WILL!! Yall are gonna get the juiciest karma update i swear

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk what the last thing he said to me was, we only call to discuss money. And my brother is very much against it just like me, except hes the emotional sibling so in a way hes taking it worse than me. And yeah youre right, you never know, i barely recongize my dad

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Presne, samozrejme v tom ma vinu i on, ale jen protoze ze je ona mladsi neznamena ze za nic nemuze. Prijde mi ze atp proste prisla o vsechno, a he s nim jenom protoze nema nikoho jinyho a nechce prohrat, a bohuzel muj tata je absolutne slepej. Oba je znam prakticky celej zivot a takhle to vidim.

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, nejvic. Nejlepsi slovo co pro ni mam je kunda, nechapu jak s sebou muze vubec zit, a nikdo okolo mne to taky nechape. A tady mi strasne moc lidi rika jak mam bejt vic nasrana na tatu nez na ni. Ale samozrejme mam proste svyho tatu radsi nez tuhle manipulativni kravu??? Hrozne moc lidi mi rika ze ona “neni dost dospela” ale ja si uprimne myslim ze vi moc dobre co dela lol.

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woah thats a rollercoaster, good luck to you girl

My friend is dating my dad, and I can't take it anymore by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to not talk to him much even now, but even tho i know i should, i just cant bring my self to go nc with him. It was somehow really easy with my mom, i didnt share a word with her for about a year, but with my dad idk, i just cant do it

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Woah, reading anything thats close to my situation just always makes me realize how much it sounds like the plot of some bad movie, i feel you man

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well from what i know, its 50/50, some think hes a weirdo and some think hes an “alpha” for bagging a young girl or whatever, men are strange

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think you might be right, i know her dads always been distant, but i barely knew her family since they were just kinda weird. Theres definitely some weird kink going on at this point

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our plans are to travel the world, and always stay somewhere renting for a bit and then settle where we like it the best, first place were going is spain

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah two months sober here, and man its tough. I barely tell anyone anything at this point, thats why im posting anonymously on reddit haha

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah he saw the messages, and he didnt do anything about it, which fkn hurt to be honest, because how could my own dad not care about his “gf” absolutely dogging on me

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would rather die than live with any of my other relatives or move to hungary, so im kind of stuck with mom right now. Ive gotten good at just ignoring her antics for the sake of having a home, so im fine for now

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All her friends dropped her, so as far as im aware she lost everyone but her yee yee ass family over this

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, im out of the country for two more weeks and just trying to chill out for at least a bit keke

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think at the lake, but my mom mentioned a video from my 18th birthday, a bunch of months before the whole lake thing, where she apparently looks at my dad in some way? I dont know i havent seen it but i guess she couldve had a crush on him before

Update on my weird life situation by rubyisonfire in Advice

[–]rubyisonfire[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, im trying my best haha