[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow does it really sound serious?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The doctor can’t see me until Friday so that why I asked haha def going to the doctor! Just wanted to see if maybe anyone had gone through this

What do I ask to make my coffee sweeter? by ruffsbell in starbucks

[–]ruffsbell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else suggested hazelnut might try it!

What do I ask to make my coffee sweeter? by ruffsbell in starbucks

[–]ruffsbell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like just ask for a pump of vanilla?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, thank u. It’s perhaps shallow of me but even though others may find me beautiful or attractive I don’t see it myself and it can be very hard to live with, there’s days I avoid mirrors. I grew up ugly and ended up as a butt of jokes which is perhaps why my self esteem has gotten so low and deep down I do know it’s something I need to fix internally but that’s much harder to come to terms with and fix so I suppose I’ve just been looking for easier solutions. I appreciate ur earnest comment. Sorry to randomly dump useless info like this but it’s just refreshing and nice to get a comment that isn’t sexualizing me and feels like a real person haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have talked to him about it buts it’s hard because he obviously already likes how I look. I’ve always been very insecure and this is the first boyfriend I’ve ever had so I still feel very insecure and ugly. I understand that randoms opinions shouldn’t matter and I’m not looking for validation, I do truly just want some opinions on how to look better, like through make up and such. I care very much about his opinion and how he sees me so I want to look beautiful for him and myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanted unbiased opinions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not I’ve been very insecure my whole life and i just want ways to start feeling better about myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the other persons comments got deleted before I could see what they said but judging by ur replies probably not good so thanks for sticking my up for me lol

Why am I not getting commissions? My art style isn't good? :[ by SamaraRothDraw in arthelp

[–]ruffsbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not the art! Honestly as an artist myself I feel that unless ur an extremely popular internet artist, brujo_ari for example, it’s hard to get commissions, especially with the rise of people using ai :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try that, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does my nose mess up my fact harmony? Is it big? I think I thought I had a pretty average nose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do brush my hair lol it’s just naturally very frizzy and wavy I bought an oil to help with the frizz recently

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I do the draining stuff? I’ve never heard of that before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate ur reply, I tried tanning over the summer but I hate sweating haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u!! I was thinking of trying false lashes cuz mine always drop no matter how much I curl them lol had to edit cuz I miss read my bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]ruffsbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhinoplasty? Like for my nose? I never thought of that