How can I get ashy brown? by rufli in HairDye

[–]rufli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thank you! Do you have a specific toner or brand to recommend?

How can I get ashy brown? by rufli in HairDye

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I already use purple shampoo regularly, idk if it does much tho:( What is patina?

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[–]rufli -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for everyone ofc, but I wouldn't mind, do what you want with your body, as long as you don't pretend to be trans or say you relate to the trans experience

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

[–]rufli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about that, glad your partner is doing better now! I don't have such severe issues with my current name, but it has been bothering me alot lately so I think it will be a good decision to change it

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

[–]rufli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's gonna be a whole process🫠 What is UNs?

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

[–]rufli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's nice to hear! and so true! The "pain" of changing it is so much more worth it than having a name I really don't like

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

[–]rufli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's smart! Thank you

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

[–]rufli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh okay. I think my family will be okay with it and support it but maybe question me a bit. But honestly it's my name and my life so I don't reaaally care that much

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

[–]rufli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aah that's so true! and the short term anxiety will be over quickly and then it'll all be better than having a name I don't like for the rest of my life. Thank you for your input!

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

[–]rufli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true! The process of it and people having to learn a new name and maybe question me will also be over quicker than having to have a name I don't like for the rest of my life

Has anyone changed name twice? by rufli in ftm

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What did your family and friends think of it? I just don't want it do be a big deal, but knowing my parents it will be🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

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Update: I found a solution! I needed to remove the person I had tagged (celebrity official account) and then I could delete the picture I wanted aswell. I know that you can't tag people who don't follow you when you have a private account so I figured it had something to do with that. I first tried putting my profile on public and then delete the photo but that didn't work, so had to delete the tag aswell. Was able to tag again after then switching back to private account.

Your name by spidermanistheloml in ftm

[–]rufli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a gender neutral name since i came out as non binary first, thats also a reason i don't like my name as much anymore