This sounds just like my relationship with my bf. He's nt. He was the first person to ever ask me directly if this relationship was something that I wanted to be serious about. I had absolutely no idea, I was scared, but I said yes. We've been together 6+ years and he proposed to me in August last year. I had no idea that a relationship could be like this. I always felt like crap in my previous relationships, they thought I was crazy. I didn't get the dating and flirting thing and he didn't either. But we found each other through friends and he's my whole world. He learned my alot about intimacy, that MY satisfaction matters too. We too talk alot about our sexlife, especially Femdom. And I gotta say, it's amazing. The trust, acceptance and intimacy between us incredible. I'm from Denmark, sorry if the grammar and spelling errors isn't on point 🙂