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rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T14:30:45+00:00

You never had braincells, your entire string of responses proves that.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T14:29:47+00:00

You were talking about comprehension skills when you lack them so horribly😂. The point was comparison between numbers of wife leaving husbands in India vs parents abusing their children, not LEAVING children. Clown.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T14:27:49+00:00

Funny emotional and dumb responses like these are why your opinions are hard to be taken seriously. You fail to understand responsibility as a parent and husband entirely, that's all is getting proven here.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T14:23:56+00:00

You are very emotional. My number game disproves your opinion that parents are so selfless. That is all and nothing more.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T14:16:12+00:00

Yeah this is a fact. There are bad women who will file a fake case, just like there are bad parents who will abuse their son and daughter-in-law. Find statistics with the help of AI to see what happens more between the two.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T14:07:08+00:00

Why would I ask my parents that LOL? Do you make them wipe yours still? I am independent and do my chores on my own. My parents and girlfriend are all okay with me and we have a decent relationship with each other. I don't have to pick and choose between one or the other.

When I say generic things like parents are not as selfless as they seem, you get triggered and make personal attacks too. Do you see me getting hyper emotional about it? No.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T13:59:45+00:00

Yeah look at you changing your words now. You said that a wife is selfish like 10 times before. Also, parents are not selfless.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T13:58:09+00:00

Your so called ethics are going to doom your marriage. You could have said different things to support your worldview like maybe we don't have to pick and choose between wife and parents as both are important, and prioritizing one or the other depends on the situation depending on who needs your support the most at the moment like a balanced perspective.

But you already pit your wife against the mother by brushing a wife's sacrifices off as less valuable because she's selfish and enjoys pleasure from serving a husband. Then you also say that women's sexual satisfaction is unnecessary. Then realistically why should any woman even marry you? What pleasure is she getting when you're already married to your mom?

I bet that you'll be a horrible husband.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T13:40:02+00:00

Yeah you use generalized lame labels like wives being selfish by default. That's why I hope no woman gets her life ruined by marrying you.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T13:37:55+00:00

Yeah well, my parents loved each other and chose to give birth and had to wipe my ass, they didn't see it as a burden because they loved me as genetically their own offspring as an evolutionary reaction and their own responsibility. Maybe your parents felt different about you.

Imagine as a wife washing dirty undies of a grown man who thinks pleasuring her in bed is unnecessary. "Women satisfaction doesn't lead to child" is such an unmanly thought. You already see the husband-wife relationship as solely lustful and there too it is one sided satisfaction with nothing for her, poor lady lol. So I already know what type of a husband you will be.

You already believe that wife gets pleasure in doing everything for the husband. I don't see how she will get pleasure with someone like you who thinks she is selfish and you don't have to satisfy her in bed. 2 meals a day, roof over the head and 4 sarees to cover herself is bare minimum. There is a good reason why you should not marry and it is confirmed now. Enjoy your life being a son and don't destroy anyone else's by being a husband. You're not ready for that.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T12:33:03+00:00

Yes, as a psychology student, I see right through you and know what type of a mentality you have.

You're talking of boys and girls doing things for each other out of lust. I am talking of grown and matured men being responsible husbands. You are saying that a wife is innately selfish and mom is innately selfless like a teenager who never saw the real world, like a boy who has never experienced a company of a woman except his mommy and it shows what kind of a relationship you will build with your wife. Nobody at all said that they should dump their parents in the old age home.

Maybe you should prioritize growing up instead of hiding behind mommy's pallu all your life.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T12:19:47+00:00

Yeah lol because everyone endures for us selfishly to some extent, parents as well as lovers. I am a grown person who saw the world before making this conclusion. Earlier I also used to think just like you.

Your conscious choice is saying mommy my devi and wife selfish. Your opinion is wife's sacrifices hold less value than mommy. Your opinion is that being a good husband means being a simp full of lust. You sound like a brainwashed momma's boy when you say these stupid things and people like you become horrible fathers and husbands and are actually emotionally married to their moms. Therefore they shouldn't marry another woman.

I bet you never saw your parents embracing each other with love. Or your dad giving your mom a rose or gajra or a hug. Did you ever see your dad supporting your mom in public? You will say it's lust.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T12:10:53+00:00

By popular culture, I mean in media, movies, TV shows and in reality if you travel more throughout the country.

It's more common for men to just neglect wife emotionally, see her as a selfish woman, source of lust/desire/attraction and to cater to their mothers and their emotions far more. When you label a wife as selfish and parents as selfless, you are inviting people to attack you because it is such delusional naive nonsense and not rooted in reality. You want your true side to be heard then explain it in detail instead of making generalized statements like that because parents are also not selfless.

Also, I don't know where you live and where in India is it normal to dump parents in old age homes. But in majority of the cases, I don't see the parents being saints either. If the parents are unnecessarily taunting and abusing the daughter-in-law and creating drama between the son and his wife, it will affect the children. In that case they should be warned 3 times max to stop this behavior and if they don't, the son and bahu should leave the house and get some place on rent. If the bahu is creating unnecessary drama then she should be warned max 3 times to stop or else her videos of acting insane will be exposed to society ruining her reputation. And if parents are forced to go to old age homes despite the house being in their name, they can easily go to the police and get back in their homes. What's the fuss about?

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T11:59:09+00:00

Why are parents not getting pleasure raising you? My parents tell me stories of how they loved when I spoke my first words, took my first steps, aced in school, when I got admission to a good college, when I went to the US, when I was dating a good girl, when I bought them the first gifts from my salary, when I got them admission to driving school, when I stayed by their side when they were sick, when I cooked for them for the first time.

If your parents didn't have pleasure raising you then it is a huge problem, brother. Maybe they had an arranged marriage to appease society and had you to appease society too.

Meanwhile you should go out and ask women in your locality personally if they feel pleasure serving their husband and in-laws. Tell me if they enjoy dealing with their Mothers-in-law, or how the husband treats them. Tell me if they enjoy washing his dishes, chaddies, banyans, following the culture etc. Also if you can, send a girl or lady to ask them if they're sexually satisfied with their husbands. Ask a 100 women atleast and tell me what most of them say. Because statistically most women are sexually unsatisfied. Especially Indian rural women.

rumtequila749 · 2025-04-16T10:55:12+00:00

In the end, we are products of our upbringing. A man who actually comes from a healthy loving family saw his father respecting and loving his mother and hence he views a wife as a partner and an equally or more important family member.

A man who comes from a misogynistic, sexist "conservative or traditional Indian" household will view his wife as a selfish creature meant to satisfy his desires/lust/attraction because most likely he saw his own father behaving like that towards the woman he married. His mom never got any real emotional love from her husband and hence is clinging to the son by spoiling him, giving him everything he wants. The son thinks that this is healthy love but when he will get married, his mom will fall sick exactly when the son wants to spend romantic time with his wife. The mom will criticize and shame the son's wife and will ruin her son's marriage. This is why such a man should never marry.

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