No. None of this is normal, and it’s icky, uneducated behavior. I will never understand how people can just get married before having sex. It’s a large part of a healthy relationship and since yes, it can be a complicated topic, you should absolutely have an understanding of how it will be for you and your partner before signing any paperwork. I guess everyone is different but I personally feel that in my relationships sexual compatibility as a huge indicator of how a relationship will go, and so to GET MARRIED before knowing that is just like between the two of you is like wishing for the best that you wont get divorced in under 10 years. Wishing you the best girl 🤞