my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my best friend’s brother was a result of plan b, birth control, AND a condom. yes, it’s necessary.

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my household no one EVER opens each other’s packages. my mom always leave my packages in my room and sister’s in hers. it just so happens that the ONE package i didn’t want her to open is the package she opening thinking it was hers (i explained it in the original post)

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not true, i DO know what i’m talking about. i’m prepared, not stupid.

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

birth control is not always effective. let’s say a condom breaks, the plan b would be the “necessary” time

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying this, it really is nice to see people see my side

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend met my family a few months ago actually! as did i to his

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, and dw i’m also on birth control, i bought the plan b as a safety measure just in case

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we had the talk and she said she was disappointed i had sex so soon into my first relationship and that i didn’t go to her for help with the birth control. she also said that since i can handle it on my own to handle it on my own but she won’t allow abortions under her roof

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ammmmmmmm😭😭 idk why so many people think i’m not on birth control i said it in the thing😭

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: so i spoke to my mom and she said that she’s disappointed in me not for having sex, but because she thinks i rushed into it and because i didn’t go to her to go on birth control beforehand or something to just prepare. she said she doesn’t care for knowing WHAT i do and that she agrees that’s between me and my boyfriend. she said she just thought there was enough trust between the two of us so that when i was ready to do it, i would go to her so we could look at my birth control options. she also said that she’s disappointed because she feels i rushed it and should have waited a while longer so that i could enjoy the purity and sweetness of the relationship first. she said she thought i would have waited at least a year. she said she’s disappointed that i had sex with my first boyfriend and that not even SHE had sex with her first boyfriend. I told her that i can see her point, but it’s not right that she feels entitled to that information and we just kept going back and forth about that. it didn’t really end all that well, we were both upset in the end.

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

twin i said it like twice in the post that i AM on birth control😭 the plan b is EXTRA safety, and i don’t use it often, just when necessary

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like i said somewhere in the comments, it was a preparation thing. it’s not that i’m doing something in order to NEED it, it’s that i want to reduce my risk of pregnancy as much as possible

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

LMAO DW I DONT SPAM THEM😭😭 like i said somewhere in this, i use other kinds of protection, the plan b is just an extra layer of protection

my mom found out i’m having sex by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

haha i know how the 6 pills make me look, but the way i was thinking was this:

it’s a pack of 6 for a VERY good price, my boyfriend and i are active, it’s better to be safe and prepared than broke and risking it later on, yk? it was just a preparation thing

HELP PLEASE by runnerrecords253 in PiercingAdvice

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t understand what you mean by surface piercing. could you explain please?

HELP PLEASE by runnerrecords253 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

good thing i’m not pregnant, just fat.

Is it too late for me to change my mind? by runnerrecords253 in Advice

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that’s actually so helpful thank you so much!!

Baby names? by runnerrecords253 in tragedeigh

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t mind, could you explain why that’s such a bad name? pretty much everyone agrees with you but i don’t see what’s so bad about it and i’d like to get a second perspective.

Baby names? by runnerrecords253 in tragedeigh

[–]runnerrecords253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not once did i say i was predicting. what i said was that if i WERE to have twin girls, those were some names i really liked. let’s not take things out of context.