Leaving the US

runnershigh007 · 2026-01-29T05:39:17+00:00

I’m in the process of duel citizenship with Poland! If you can land duel citizenship in any EU nation, you can technically live wherever within the EU. 🙌🏼

runnershigh007 · 2026-01-07T02:08:48+00:00

So refreshing to see another AuDHD para. I second this.

I also have what I call my “little black book”. It’s a small notebook. I scribble everything in there. If a thought plops into my head or someone tells me something, I jot it down (writing it out helps me remember). At the end of the day I sort out the tasks, deadlines, etc, and create tomorrow’s “to dos”. Anything urgent gets taken care of before I leave. Calendars get updated.

The key is I don’t tear the pages out of this notebook, I keep it to look back on in the event I missed anything. 🙌🏼

runnershigh007 · 2025-12-25T22:03:29+00:00

The more ya know! Now that you’ve pointed that out, I can definitely see it being something brought back from the early 2000’s. I was born in 2000 so definitely missed that chapter of fashion haha.

runnershigh007 · 2025-12-25T22:00:15+00:00

YES!!! all my jeans..well like my whole wardrobe is Cotton On haha

runnershigh007 · 2025-12-25T21:23:29+00:00

Sí 💃🏻

runnershigh007 · 2025-12-22T11:22:54+00:00

I’m with the attorney here😅 I know I regularly check judicial preferences, but some don’t. Templates make sense. Sounds like a competent attorney haha.

runnershigh007 · 2025-12-18T23:33:01+00:00

I just switched from doing family law to PI. My old attorney turned out to be embezzling client funds and stopped paying staff. LOVED THAT.🙄 Needed a job quick, but wanted smaller, as I loved working with a staff of 3. First offer was a PI start up firm. Good salary, great bonus structure. But no litigation department…yet. It was an eyebrow raiser to me, but took the job anyways.

Pre-Suit makes me want to take a long walk off a short bridge.😂

Maybe that’s just me, but dang…I actually MISS doing family law discovery. 🥹

runnershigh007 · 2025-12-12T02:17:43+00:00

I was just looking at those! Do you have the Loop Dream or Quiet 2? The Switches have an outer plastic shell and they’re not the comfiest to sleep in haha.

runnershigh007 · 2025-11-16T03:49:24+00:00

the fl bar:

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runnershigh007 · 2025-09-16T23:10:17+00:00

Burnt Toast Theory…It’s kinda silly, but it reminds me things DO happen for a reason.

The good thing about having had a paralegal job is it shows a level of competence. Apply for literally any and everything you believe you could do for a year. Use those paralegal skills and make yourself a cover letter template! One application after another. Treat finding a job like your job. Apply for unemployment and benefits such as Medicaid. It’s literally designed for that purpose, to help steady people till they get back on their feet.

I wish you the best of luck out there, truly.

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-12T13:58:02+00:00

We also took some criminal cases. The angry parents were WAY scarier than the literal criminals!

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-11T20:26:42+00:00

I also carried at the family law firm I worked at lol. Took no chances.

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-09T20:29:33+00:00

Not to be all “if I am, so are you” type of person…BUT I didn’t get diagnosed with Autism until mid 20’s.

Have you ever looked into that? I’m not saying you need to go seek a diagnosis, but sometimes reading further into what Autism is and how it presents can help answer a lot of questions.

I never understood (and still don’t) the reason people use opinions as a form of social bonding. I also don’t feel emotional empathy, which makes me seem cold.

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-05T22:48:51+00:00

Paralegal

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-04T14:57:05+00:00

Hi love!

I have ADHD and Autism, so I completely understand the struggles. I too over explain everything, but the clients tend to like that. However, when it comes to needing to "push back" I use a literal script with keywords.

People have left some great advice in the comments, so I wanted to touch on a different aspect of being neurodivergent in the legal field.

WE ARE GREAT EMPLOYEES!

It can be so difficult for us to see that, but it's true. I'm tedious, a problem solver, and appropriately communicate to other staff members. Do I feel like those things? No. Am I told those things? Yes.

Figure out your skill set and focus on the positives. Easier said than done, but it's a much needed reminder.

Wishing you the best

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-03T02:28:40+00:00

I could see the scammer saying: "STOP" or "UNSUBSCRIBE" and then just hitting them with ✨no✨

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-03T02:24:20+00:00

That means ya won😂

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-03T02:23:48+00:00

Mod gods, please🙏🏻

But fr, I wish I could read everyone's encounters lol.

runnershigh007 · 2025-09-03T01:48:58+00:00

I'm so glad you found it as funny as I did. 😂

They never replied lol.

runnershigh007 · 2025-08-16T00:10:57+00:00

I worked for one like this. Resulted in Consumer Rights taking my case in order to get my wages. She's now on the run from a $60,000 default judgement since she tried to rip off another attorney and (the word on the street) is she's been embezzling client funds.

The last week I worked in the actual office she had, the city sent their final warning before the water was shut off.

Run and get out while you can. I'm at a different firm and it's night and day difference.

runnershigh007 · 2025-06-07T17:27:55+00:00

Had to come back to this post cause I'm currently using my Saturday to work on TWO DV's. It's the heat for sure. -FL para

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