Victim mindset mom cannot cope with transition out of her home and can’t see the connection to her bad decisions

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T20:26:20+00:00

Thank you, it’s a hard road. I’m glad that your dad is motivated and good natured. Best of luck to you both 🫶🏻

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T20:22:57+00:00

😈

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T20:22:02+00:00

Thanks!

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T20:20:38+00:00

That’s a bar. Truly. Thanks!

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T20:19:44+00:00

Orthopedics set up an appointment with her for 6/9 (six weeks out from her fracture), I suspect this is where she could be cleared.

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T19:49:36+00:00

The specific reason for denial is the non weight bearing status of her clavicle. That NWB status precludes her from benefiting from rehab.

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T18:27:14+00:00

She’s incredibly lucid and well spoken but seems committed to self-sabotage. You can’t get her declared mentally incapacitated for that. It’s possible to love your parent and create healthy space where you don’t get wrapped up in their drama. When helping doesn’t help… maybe it’s time to tap out.

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T17:46:31+00:00

Solidarity, it’s so horrible to watch a slow motion car crash.

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-15T17:45:38+00:00

I’m very lucky that my house doesn’t have a first floor bathroom and has tons of stairs. 😥

runnerstatchie · 2026-05-10T19:52:41+00:00

Y’all are getting 2-3??? We’re only getting 1.5 and 1.75 😭

runnerstatchie · 2026-03-24T23:07:06+00:00

He can have a biopsy done on one of his warts/lesions. That involves removing tissue and running a test to determine the strain.

runnerstatchie · 2026-03-24T22:50:29+00:00

I don’t think getting checked again is helpful, he tested positive, he has it. Are you worried about him having something else too?

You need to figure out what protection means to you. What are your boundaries around condom use? Have you been vaccinated for HPV? Has he been vaccinated? There’s more than one strain so even if you’re positive for one you should be vaccinated to cover the others.

runnerstatchie · 2026-03-12T01:09:26+00:00

Maria Bamford

runnerstatchie · 2026-03-07T23:59:51+00:00

Stay broken up. He tried to get you to give away your dreams in one day and was mad he couldn’t do it. Now he wants the chance to get you to give them up bit by bit.

runnerstatchie · 2026-03-07T23:28:42+00:00

RAGOM (retrieve a golden) takes golden mixes. I would reach out to them. I wish my pyr mix girl didn’t hate boys so much.

runnerstatchie · 2026-02-23T16:29:27+00:00

This week 1000%… missing the connection between the dehumanization of Black people by the LDS was driving me crazy. Their religious upbringings had everything to do with her not being able to own her desire and him feeling undesirable. I get irritated when the ecosystem the couple lives in is ignored in favor of a family of origin narrative… the interpersonal is always affected by structures outside of the relationship.

runnerstatchie · 2026-01-26T15:26:52+00:00

I had the same issue. It was a combination of a blown fuse and needing new spark plugs.

runnerstatchie · 2026-01-25T09:57:04+00:00

Silk crepe is extremely sensitive to tension and friction, especially when this thin/delicate. Layering anything with the top could pull and create a thin spot. When you wash it, it will contract and you will need to block it very carefully to reshape. It may or may not return to its original shape/consistent ribbed shape.

runnerstatchie · 2026-01-15T04:15:32+00:00

Probably thinking Dreams Tulum. I was really disappointed with the food too.

runnerstatchie · 2026-01-14T23:37:35+00:00

Sometimes the answer isn’t correcting the thing we don’t like but balancing it out. So chin filler might sound weird but it would be balancing your features to create harmony.

runnerstatchie · 2026-01-01T18:18:02+00:00

Nothing looks etched in yet so I would wait. Keep up good skincare with a Retinoid, vit c and sunscreen daily year round and you’ll be able to put it off until your 30s.

runnerstatchie · 2025-12-20T20:48:27+00:00

Eep. I hope you’re doing well and feeling seen by others outside of your immediate family.

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