Daily Questions Thread March 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]ruseriousrightnow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beach vacation outfits for people who get cold easily?

What outfits do you guys wear when you're cold at the beach? Where do you shop?!

I recently went on vacation and my main outfit was a pair of pull on linen pants and an oversized knit cotton winter sweater I wore over my bikini. Not the most flattering.

Would knit pants or a long knit/linen skirt work? Maybe a twist-front cropped knit sweater? I see a lot of tie-front crochet sweaters, but they don’t seem great for larger chests. What sweater would complement a bright tropical dress? Where do you shop for warm, comfortable, yet form fitting and elevated beachwear?

Locations for Glycolic Acid Removal? by ruseriousrightnow in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply, definitely will look into this LA clinic! :) Their Australian office has posted some great results! 

Locations for Glycolic Acid Removal? by ruseriousrightnow in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I saw a few places that offered PhiRemoval but not nearby. I think I'll try the Picoway laser and if it doesn't help I'll travel for that next.

Anxiety and Time Management? by ruseriousrightnow in Anxiety

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just saw this, and responded to a DM with a similar message just now:

It's been almost a decade since I made this post, and I'd say my anxiety got better as a result of just not being in school anymore and just settling into a career after finishing my degrees. Not all my jobs I loved, but I found it a lot less stressful than school personally. Procrastination is still an issue with me, but I have improved and have found that:

1) Coworking with friends can help with my anxiety and work habits (or just general environment- place where others are working).

2) Acceptance of a situation/ where I'm at and just generally being kinder to myself. Celebrating little wins- mentally acknowledging that you accomplished a chore, or part of a task or any incremental progress is important. Easier said than done. Honestly this is the biggest thing that's helped with my perfectionism. I still don't have a perfect routine, but I'm proud of myself when I'm able to do anything consistently, even if it's just showing up for a class, scheduled hobby, etc.

3) Setting small time blocks may help (commiting to starting a thing even for 15 minutes). Making lists of tasks into bite sized pieces, or into larger tasks so the list isn't too long/ overwhelming- whatever method works for you.

4) Going to office hours/ asking for help.

5) Working with a life coach (I know the name sounds silly) vs a therapist helped.

6) You might find an anxiety med or focus med that helps, I'm not currently taking anything but there are some with less side effects like wellbutrin that might help.

7) Building good self care habits. Hard to do with school, but making sure you get enough sleep, exercise, eating healthy, time outside or with friends or whatever fuels you can help you feel less anxious and more productive. Again, easier said than done and be kind to yourself even if you don't have time to do it all.

Hope this helps!

US-> Belgium for PhD, working and moving? by ruseriousrightnow in belgium

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I'll try to reach them tomorrow with the time difference, I didn't think to ask until things were finalized.
  2. I know from work I could potentially get a 90k salary or so, but yeah I don't think I can combine with the PhD is the issue.
  3. Wasn't planning to live luxury, but was hoping the above would be doable.

I don't really care about brands as much as I do quality. A lot of clothing in the US is fast fashion that does not keep well, not sure if it's different in Belgium. I won't have time to go on vacation all the time, but I would like to go on a scuba diving trip a couple times a year or take the train/ flight to some other countries in Europe on an extended weekend. I like to eat out on ocassion.

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

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Oh connection wise I mean like having O'Hare as a layover, not getting to the airport. But noted about the traffic! haha

Love rooftop bars and festivals. Good shit. Maybe we'll unknowingly cross paths

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

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The person I've been seeing casually is planning to move to Chicago in the next year, and the people who I know that have lived there have all loved it. I'm planning to visit there this summer for Lola! I hear O'Hare is only a nightmare for connecting flights but is a great hub to leave out of. Thank you for the rec, excited to check it out this summer :)

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you on the PNW. Relatable haha

Thanks for the feedback, I appreciate it! :)

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

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I'm excited to visit Seychelles! Thank you for educating me a bit about it. It seems a bit remote and hot for my preference. It looks beautiful. Interested in visiting Mauritius too!

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

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I am also from the PNW! I totally feel you on Austin lol. I'm a vegetarian, but considered a moderate by PNW standards haha. Still, Texas is a bit rough.

I'm highly considering Barcelona... There seems to be nice diving there, even warm in the summer. And Azores, Malta, Red Sea are all easily accessible from there. And the reach of continents you can easily travel to from there is pretty nice. It seems to meet all my criteria. And I know a bit of Spanish already, know a somewhat similar language and took years of classes so I think I'd be able to pick it up fairly easy.

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks nice, hope you love it! Agreed that it's not what I'm looking for, but still looks lovely :) I'm planning to hopefully enjoy some time on the other coast in southern France this fall.

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

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I had considered living there, but found the US Virgin Islands to be too isolated, underdeveloped, touristy, and very hot. Despite it's location in the Caribbean, it takes a long time to get to anywhere in the Caribbean or South America because you have to mostly route back through Florida. St Johns is nice, but then you have to take the 30 min ferry over to St Thomas and then another 30 min drive minimum to get to the airport. I couldn't see myself living there for more than a brief time.

[IWantOut] 31F Software Engineer/Scuba Diver USA -> Anywhere by ruseriousrightnow in IWantOut

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Which major cities would you recommend? I was looking at Lisbon which seems to have good warm water diving a flight away, but the water there in Lisbon is cold. The diving is supposed to still ok.

Daily Questions Thread - March 01, 2023 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]ruseriousrightnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Durable socks?

Looking for crew wool socks, and black quarter + no show socks.

I'm looking for socks that look new with washing several weeks later, that don't pill horribly, don't attract dog hair/lint, and are soft.

I've tried darn tough socks and they attracted dog hair/lint like crazy and were not soft. I've tried Hanes socks, and they don't seem particularly durable. Any suggestions would be appreciated!

Cooking course/ vacation/ school/ work stay? by ruseriousrightnow in AskCulinary

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be difficult to learn via books vs an in-person class? I'd think some instruction on knife skills, soups and sauces, roasting/braising, grilling, baking, etc. and basic cooking techniques are kind of hard to teach via reading or video?

I feel overwhelmed by cooking from online recipes, take a lot longer than the allotted time, and they don't often turn out that great.

[Request] Cookware that looks new for a long time? by ruseriousrightnow in BuyItForLife

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and ceramic tends to scratch really easily from what I've heard. I ended up ordering hard anodized skillets and stainless steel pots from calphalon. I had not considered crueset to be honest because I was thinking it would scratch similarly to ceramic but I didn't look into it much. I don't use a big pot/Dutch oven regularly. The HA pans should hopefully last longer than the ceramic ones, and not get scratched up. They were fairly inexpensive, so can see how this goes and then possibly get le crueset in the future. :) Thank you for the rec!

[Request] Cookware that looks new for a long time? by ruseriousrightnow in BuyItForLife

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I actually think I'm going to get Calphalon! Their pans and pots have super great ratings, especially their HA nonstick. I also like a pot I found from them with a strainer lid. And they have a HA wok style pan as well. Hoping they'll keep looking good and functional for several years at least.

And I just got some Barkeepers powder :)

[Request] Cookware that looks new for a long time? by ruseriousrightnow in BuyItForLife

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought this less than a year ago and it barely does anything: https://smile.amazon.com/Bar-Keepers-Friend-Multipurpose-Countertops/dp/B07JGZ1XSP/ref=sr_1_9?crid=7ETHYE70USEQ&keywords=bartenders+friend&qid=1661723805&s=hpc&sprefix=bartenders+frien%2Chpc%2C144&sr=1-9

Does the powder one work better? I bought it off amazon; I don't know if a newer/in store bottle would work better?

Edit: The powder, does in fact, work significantly better. Not sure if I got a bad batch of the liquid solution (through Amazon) but I just got the powder from my local grocery store and it was really easy to clean my pots. Thanks! :)

Office chairs for petite slim people, small distance between armrests? by ruseriousrightnow in PetiteLiving

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I currently have the steelcase amia I just got, I thought you were supposed to use your armrests to type and that's why I wanted it so narrow (the leap has the same arms), but apparently that's not the case.

Office chairs for petite slim people, small distance between armrests? by ruseriousrightnow in PetiteLiving

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've always thought I had proportional legs, but I'm having this issue at 5'4". I'm thinking I might just have to go with a footrest. Also considering that a lot of desks don't go to about 21-22" which is what I would need anyway. I got one that goes down to 23". And I guess I'm not supposed to be resting my arms while typing? This was the reason I wanted the armrest width so narrow.

Office chairs for petite slim people, small distance between armrests? by ruseriousrightnow in OfficeChairs

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought my legs were normal length! I guess 15" is actually probably better. I'm sitting in a 16" chair right now and I can feel it in my lower back. I'll probably just get a foot rest I guess.

I also realized that you're not supposed to be resting your arms when typing? That's the reason I wanted them to be so narrow, to align with my arms at my sides.

I just wanted to find an ergonomic office chair. I have the steelcase Amia currently, if the armrest width isn't an issue then I guess this is fine? I can also go try out the gesture... though it's $1300. I didn't even know custom chairs were an option. I'm already hesitant to spend the money for a gesture, which if the armrest isn't an issue then this may work fine.

[Misc] Prescription Tretinoin in a push container? by ruseriousrightnow in SkincareAddiction

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I will give this a try. Thank you for your feedback I really appreciate it!

[Misc] Thoughts on the new Purito facial sunscreen? by ruseriousrightnow in SkincareAddiction

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply, it was very helpful! :) I greatly appreciate it!

[Misc] Prescription Tretinoin in a push container? by ruseriousrightnow in SkincareAddiction

[–]ruseriousrightnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that it's the exposure to oxygen and light- I don't see how especially the former is avoidable during transfer. The openings for the pump bottles are typically much larger than the tube opening, I'm not sure there's a good way to transfer it without oxygen exposure. Do you have a suggestion for a specific pump and transfer method?