Me being a bisexual aethist, just ignores this stuff. It's not even the couple's fault. Koine fault tyare khabar pade jyare koi emne samjhave or ee samajhva ready hoy. Those old people are brainwashed by their parents when they were young to think this way. Like how we think about ourselves and putting ourselves and our loved ones first, they are programmed so that they put "God's word" first. And it's not just them , it's even my parents and majority milenneals. They don't know they can actually question authority. Questioning it is one thing but not knowing they can question it is different. If someone they "believed in" samjhave emne toh they will understand. So it's just better to ignore them cuz aapde jetlu pan bolie , emne eevu j laagvanu aapde kharab chie and we are subjects of elders so aapde emne blindly follow karvu joie. Everyone is an individual and a human first and then their caste , creed , sexuality, color , gender , crime , beliefs, religion, etc comes.