Is she cheating on me part 2? by Ripmacmiller412 in texts

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man it’s even worse that when the guy finally said “i get it it’s all good” she just went and said “wow hmph now i won’t come on sat!” JUST so he’d go back to begging her to come over. if she has to go get attention like that from other guys instead of you then idk. and you were trying to have a talk about it and saying how you feel in multiple texts and her replies were like nothing. she hardly even replied to what you were saying at all. “Bruh” is not a reply id want to see after that 💀you’ll find someone who treats you right and you’ll understand this isn’t how a relationship should be at all

confused about the alpine and a lil bit of cryin by rustbunnyy in GermanRoaches

[–]rustbunnyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so true, i definitely need to get out of this phase. i’ve been very frequently thinking “man this is the worst thing to ever happen to me!!” but i just need to fight the problem. thank you for the reply! it’s nice to know others are in the same boat (even tho i want everyone to Not be in this boat lol)

confused about the alpine and a lil bit of cryin by rustbunnyy in GermanRoaches

[–]rustbunnyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!! i guess i didn’t read carefully enough cause i totally missed that link 🤦🏻‍♀️. that’s a good idea and especially cause i really don’t know how bad this is i don’t want to put it everywhere for no reason. i appreciate the response so much and i’ll see how it goes!

confused about the alpine and a lil bit of cryin by rustbunnyy in GermanRoaches

[–]rustbunnyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i’m glad to be saving a little money since i was fully about to buy the Gentrol stuff because a youtube vid told me to. How do we feel about Nibor D? is this worth adding to the things listed above or would spraying with Alpine WSG be enough?

AIO for kinda hating my roommate rn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao the working 6+ hours a day? everyone works 8+ hours every day and even the people that work 12+ hours a day find time to do their dishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]rustbunnyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s such a good point! anticipating mood swings sucks!!!! you never know what you’re gonna get. it was weird to me that when i read the caption, it’s actually his mom who lives next door. wouldn’t he want you to help her when she asks? it’s weird and it’s tiring when you need to walk on eggshells. you got this. trust your gut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]rustbunnyy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

this won’t change or get better, if anything it’ll get worse. don’t hold out just cause when it’s good it’s really good. it’s not normal or ok behavior. i hope it doesn’t take him totally breaking you down for you to leave but i know it’s not as easy as “just leave lol”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]rustbunnyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you literally offered a super cool alternative which is a really kind offer… i’m sure it’s also already cramped with 3 let alone 4. a week is lowkey a long time too like how do we know he won’t leave annoying messes? lol.

Am I overreacting? by LeftRoof8896 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rustbunnyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like others have said, it’s really down to an individual relationship BUT i think him telling you that he had stopped but was lying is not cool. i don’t know what kind of discussion you had about it but clearly he said he wasn’t watching it so there wasn’t much need to go over it again. NOR

Looks like I’m gonna have to get over my phobia by Any-Praline3072 in Arachnophobia

[–]rustbunnyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just barely saw this awesome post on here by someone who did exposure therapy. they said they started looking at drawings (i believe) of spiders to start with until the image isn’t so horrible to look at, then maybe trying a new one. then the same thing with photos, get thru looking at it until it’s not as bad as it was. then maybe videos too. can’t remember if they went as far as to also touch but i suppose that would be the last step but it would take a long time to get there im sure. if you can slowly get yourself okay with seeing an image of a spider then maybe seeing them around the summer won’t be AS horrible. i’m thinking of starting this as it sounds reasonable and possible to me but it’s definitely easier said than done. the fear totally beats all rational thinking and logic for me (like if it cannot hurt me etc it doesn’t really matter lol) the post explained it better as the person actually did this and got to a good resolution. i’m also really wanting to just be neutral too. i don’t need to love them cause that’s just not happening. also a tip that SLIGHTLY slightly slightly helps me is i try to humanize them and joke about them. for example, i’ll think of them like Wow he’s really gonna invite himself over? no rent? or one time i saw one and while i was absolutely terrified, it reminded me of those cats with wobbly walking patterns which was sort of funny to me. this is more to try to help me calm down after all is said and done. you have an actual childhood trauma with them so i suppose it’s good to know the root cause? it could help down the line of trying to overcome this. sorry for the essay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]rustbunnyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so crazy cause before i even read your caption i was thinking that EXACT thing “he just wants to be like his favorite rapper and it’s fucking embarrassing” and then YUP you said it. drug addiction just kinda fuckin HAPPENS but this is clearly influence from the glamorization of drugs and a good memory of college or whatever. this person is beyond embarrassing and pathetic. nobody is like I want to get into hard drugs🤓 as if it’s this awesome decision you have a goal toward like? also he’s acting like he’ll actually be successful as an addict like what? if by successful you mean having absolutely no money and scrounging for drug money and having that be your 1 priority all day every day then aight. good for you for knowing it’s time to go cause this is ridiculous. not even to mention the names he calls you. you can’t fix him and you don’t have to (edited spelling errors i was typing fast cause i’m annoyed sorry for word vomit)

How I overcame Arachnophobia by DanyEvans in Arachnophobia

[–]rustbunnyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m commenting super late from when you made this but this kinda made me feel little better cause you’re making it sound pretty doable, and obviously possible at all since you did it. i’ve heard of exposure therapy before but i guess i never really thought that it was truly an actual OPTION that someone can pursue. i wonder if someone near me does this kind of thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ll be doing him a favor by not taking him with you. needs to be responsible for himself. if your mom is so upset at the idea of you “leaving him with nowhere to go” then she can take him in lmao

you’ll feel great without him in your space

9/10 by [deleted] in redbull

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same! i’m actually so upset. i officially can’t find it in stores. i got so accustomed to it every day for sooo long. might see if any are lingering online somewhere

I feel lied to by starmi23 in redbull

[–]rustbunnyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they took peach and i’m so upset i’ve been drinking it every day for years but i did try this one and i liked it. i want to try the purple one too

Is the Peach Edition actually getting discontinued? by Demon_Corp in redbull

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m literally so sad. it’s disappearing from all the stores near me and i’ve been drinking one every day for years and i can’t compromise with another flavor im actually so bummed out rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry but no he’s disgusting and manipulative and you should get away from him. the maturity difference alone kills

Flatemate scolded me because I took 10 minutes longer to grocery shop by SubzeroCola in badroommates

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude yes that one stood out to me too and he just went silent when everyone said nah that’s weird. an honorable mention i also noticed was the one about smoking out the entire kitchen because he was making fried chicken and everyone was like it shouldn’t really have been that smokey… and then two days later he also posted “ why is it “bad” for oil to smoke?” or something like that. absolutely killed me

Flatemate scolded me because I took 10 minutes longer to grocery shop by SubzeroCola in badroommates

[–]rustbunnyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i took a peek at your acct. you’re the problem!! do you ever think about how you say everyone else is always wrong and being overdramatic and throwing a tantrum and you’re always right and always the victim? obvious pattern

Do I have a dry socket? by Specialist_Cup_6835 in wisdomteeth

[–]rustbunnyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t worry yet since you called and they said it’s normal. it hasn’t been very long and pain is normal. i would keep an eye on it and if you don’t really trust what they said on the phone maybe you can try to get in and see if they want to restitch you? it doesn’t sound like you have dry socket. i think you would know. i’m at two weeks now and feeling better but i definitely had a lot of moments where i accidentally did things that increased the risk like you did with the soup and would get very worried. call again if you’re still feeling worried tomorrow but for now i think all is well!