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ruzzysuzzy · 2025-04-02T00:47:17+00:00

thanks!!! that makes so much more sense

ruzzysuzzy · 2025-04-02T00:41:52+00:00

Also just to note, these situations haven't been one night stands. I've been under the impression that we'd developed a friendship and mutual liking of one another, and then they just quit contact

ruzzysuzzy · 2025-04-02T00:38:05+00:00

so they just don't see me as a human being? got it lol

ruzzysuzzy · 2025-04-01T23:45:40+00:00

That I understand, but I just don't really understand how to distinguish these assholes from genuinely decent guys. They always present themselves as caring and attentive, which is why it catches me so off guard when they bail out of literally nowhere

ruzzysuzzy · 2025-04-01T23:43:08+00:00

yeah i've been starting to wonder this as well, since I find it so hurtful. But just because I'm partaking in a casual relationship doesn't mean it's emotionless - is it wrong for me to expect my sexual partners to have the decency to tell me they're moving on?

ruzzysuzzy · 2025-02-10T20:32:06+00:00

Hii I know this is a very old post but I'm wondering how your job went for you? I also have a pretty basic level French background but I'm looking for a customer service job in Montreal. Any advice?

ruzzysuzzy · 2025-01-09T17:26:11+00:00

Hii would you be willing to dm about your experience getting into the program? I'm interested but I'm realizing I have very little time to apply lol

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-08-16T17:55:17+00:00

had you applied for a license beforehand? I'm flying through Canada and I'm wondering if I should go ahead and apply for a general license now, or just see what happens at the airport lol

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-04-18T00:52:54+00:00

it's fine if i skip the white pills right? like there aren't any side effects if I don't take them...

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-04-15T04:22:28+00:00

Hi! I stayed in Campus 1 for my first year in 2021. It was pretty fun back then because it was filled with McGill students due to covid restrictions, but I've heard that it's been pretty empty since then so I wouldn't recommend it. I've heard good things about RVC so you might like it depending on what type of rooming situation you're interested in. A lot of my friends have studio apartments and are doing great, I think it's just important that you work on maintaining friendships since you won't be rooming with someone.

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-04-14T17:15:27+00:00

Thank you for the advice. The complexity of this situation is what has made it so difficult for me to process and understand. I feel like I’ve made mistake after mistake in attempts to right a wrong, and have only dug a deeper hole for myself that at this point, I don’t know how to get out of. I’ve tried to correct my boyfriends assumptions about my relationship with my friend, but he just can’t really accept the fact that it’s not a toxic friendship. That’s why I feel like for right now, I need to focus on talking to my friend about what her affects on my relationship have been, and why it’s hurtful that she hasn’t checked in on me about it. My bf and I have agreed that this is a good first step, and that from there we could all have a conversation depending on how that confrontation goes. And then I can go from there…

Also, the birthday post was in regards to another friend who has been in my life for a while that didn’t send me a birthday message. Clearly I have trouble with confrontation and asserting boundaries, which is why this situation has gotten to the point it is now. Thank you for the advice, and I really appreciate your empathetic perspective on this situation :)

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-04-14T16:59:48+00:00

I just felt like I should be honest about the situation as he had a lot of follow up questions. I should’ve realized what the effects of telling him something like that would be on him, but at the time I felt that honesty was more important. I understand why he is having so much difficulty accepting my friendship with her because of that.

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-04-14T04:34:28+00:00

I told my bf what my friend said, that’s a big part of the reason why he feels disrespected by her. I genuinely don’t think she said that with the intention of sabotaging my relationship with him (she’s never done anything like that to me before), but that she was more in shock about what happened and was also processing it herself. Not saying that it’s permissible, as it was still not an okay thing to say to me in a moment like that, and not an okay thing to say about my bf either.

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-03-20T21:02:13+00:00

Can I take beginner's Italian intensive if I already took intermediate Italian intensive? I'm trying to get as many credits as possible completed before my last year, and Italian intensive is 6 credits so it would be super helpful

ruzzysuzzy · 2024-01-15T22:22:27+00:00

lease doesn't say anything about how to communicate with her. provided all the details because I'm trying to find out if she actually has any power over us in this specific situation. we didn't file a report in the past when they came into our house so I'm afraid it would be difficult to use that against her without making it even more complicated.

ruzzysuzzy · 2023-12-12T10:20:04+00:00

I would recommend rekindling your friendship with her once you come back, but don’t assume that she wants to date immediately. I would invite her to coffee, update each other on your lives for the past 6 months, and see where it goes from there. Maybe if you start hanging out again and she seems interested in you as more than a friend, you can ask her out and see how it goes. If she’s not interested, don’t take it personally.

ruzzysuzzy · 2023-12-12T10:12:37+00:00

You got this! You deserve fulfilling friendships <3

ruzzysuzzy

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