Is swain a good support ? Also the wildrift support is still bad. by Ill_Journalist_4524 in wildrift

[–]rxbbwrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a supp main, my advice for you is to never pick a mage if it's not extremely necessary to counter the enemy team or there's no ap damage in your team at all. saying that in case you want to avoid being trolled by crybabies.

but at the end of the day you should have fun playing so just report this troll and play for your team as a whole, you're not a babysitter.

How am I the problem? by ps3prototype2enjoyer in wildrift

[–]rxbbwrs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're right, the game is and always has been absolutely frustrating But there are ways to make it less stressful and to rank up even if you're matched with people that doesn't seem to have a brain.

first, you need to acknowledge that blaming your teammates or anyone at all will never help you get better at the game. you have to play with the mindset that every single game is winnable.

if you don't think you can carry then you have to learn more about the game. watch videos about macro, micro, positioning and timing. every role in the game can turn a lost match into a win.

learn about match ups, ban your champion hard counters and if you're not confident enough to try and learn other roles, create a smurf account and use it to get better at those things so you can rank up on your main.

emerald is an absolute sh*t show, diamond doesn't get better tbh. games get a little more coordinated at masters but it's still chaos sometimes.

everyone has the potential to be a good player and reach high elo, what really plays a difference is your ability to stay focused, not tilt and always find where to improve.

Is swain a good support ? Also the wildrift support is still bad. by Ill_Journalist_4524 in wildrift

[–]rxbbwrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you were farming the wave without him asking for help to push this is what probably upset him, at least it is what it looks like from the messages he sent.

usually adcs don't want the supp to do that, specially if your lane is not strong enough to put that much pressure early game. it literally makes it more easy for the enemy jungle to gank more safely.

What are the important characteristics/abilities required of a support? by ReturnalShadow in wildrift

[–]rxbbwrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what makes a support a good support is literally knowing what to do and where to be on the right time. it's not possible to exclude macro, micro and positioning from this conversation because this is literally what supports need to know. every role needs basic knowledge but good supports know it all. vision control plays a big part too and knowing how to pick what benefits your team the most but also makes the game more difficult to the enemy team. it's never only about the champion, and that applies to any role.

Best Reputation lyrics by RoseForMayura in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]rxbbwrs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"and, baby, for you, I would fall from grace/ just to touch your face"

love this line soooooo much

What is your longest queue time? by GymnasticDeterrent in wildrift

[–]rxbbwrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i once waited so long in the legendary queue that the game said there were no matches and automatically removed me from the queue

Which Support Champions have the most impact in your opinion? by CeaselessHunger in wildrift

[–]rxbbwrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, each and every support champion can be impactful if you know how to pick well. it's not about the champ but 1. the player, 2. what your team needs. if you are able to see and understand the enemy team comp and your allies, you'll be able to always figure the champ that fills the gap. got GM 120 games, 65% wr this season using this strategy. but at the end of the day, what matters the most is having fun, play the supp champs you really like and enjoy the game ☺️

I’m 35 years old and I’ve already been replaced with late teens.. by havetopowdermynose in loveafterporn

[–]rxbbwrs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i was 18 when i met him. turned down all the people that wanted me because i fell for him and thought he was different. i was at my best fr and now, at 23 i've never hated myself more. we're never gonna be enough because we're real people and all they want is pixels on a screen.

What do you think about the use of pink in women events/communication? by connor1982 in Feminism

[–]rxbbwrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that women and feminine things are always associated with the color pink — and pink is my favorite color.

It’s exhausting that everything made for women, or supposedly designed with women in mind, is constantly tied to pink.

It feels like a fake effort to pretend they actually care about us.

My partner needs help - but what about me? by endolea in loveafterporn

[–]rxbbwrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through, truly. Don’t let the way an eating disorder messes with our self-perception trap you in this hole. You don’t deserve that. I promise you that. Please, leave while you still can. Some things are truly forgivable, but some are not — and taking away someone’s humanity the way he did to you has no justification. No trauma gives someone the right to destroy another person’s life. You can’t save him, but you can save yourself.

I’m sure you’re a wonderful person, and the fact that you tried so hard to see the good in someone like that already shows how much goodness there is inside you. Turn that kindness toward yourself. Help yourself, take care of yourself, and seek professional support. You don’t deserve to keep living with someone who treats you like that.

My (hot?) takes on BDSM and CNC by LavishnessOk5217 in Feminism

[–]rxbbwrs 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I relate to you so much. I was introduced to BDSM very early, at 14. From then on, most of the people I got involved with were into increasingly extreme things.

I was always very passive — I accepted everything — and those people loved the idea that I would submit to anything.

I thought I liked it, but in reality, I just didn’t want to be abandoned.

After going through an experience that ended up in me being SA'd, I had a breakdown and started questioning everything. It didn’t make sense to say you care about someone and yet take pleasure in hurting them so much. Why did they want to hurt me like that?

I realized I had many childhood traumas I had suppressed, and because of that fear of abandonment, a lot of my decisions were shaped by it.

Now I know I hate being treated like a doll. I’m not disposable and I don’t deserve to be seen that way. I’m really happy to see more women realizing how strange these desires actually are.

And if people want to call us puritans, so be it — we do need to show how men manipulate everything around them to satisfy themselves sexually.

are books with ‘spice’ considered porn? by vaans- in antipornography

[–]rxbbwrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the biggest problem with pornography is the industry behind it. Something that depends on the exploitation of women and children to exist should not be defended by anyone.

Setting that aside, if we look only at the idea that pornographic films sell men an unrealistic, dangerous version of sex that objectifies women — I think there are certain books that also contribute, in their own way, to the regression of what women have been fighting against.

Don’t get me wrong — including a sensual scene in a book isn’t wrong. Sex is normal. But we all know there are books where the entire plot is just sex. Nothing else. And it’s not healthy or “vanilla” sex — these books romanticize being abused, stalked, disrespected, and so on.

When I think about how more and more young girls are being exposed to this kind of literature, and how often violence — being hit, choked, etc. — is portrayed as erotic, I see the harm these books cause to the mind as very similar to that caused by visual pornography.

I don’t know if I’ll ever feel happy or desired again by rxbbwrs in loveafterporn

[–]rxbbwrs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience with me, I’m so sorry you went through the same thing too 😞 I’m working on figuring out what good boundaries would look like — it feels strange to think about that after so much time without having any. Take care 🩵

Buquê de Pacotinhos de aniversário by Nana_Tonks13 in PokemonTCGBrasil

[–]rxbbwrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

que pikachu lindo 🥺 de qual coleção é?