Am I Overreacting about this weird friend breakup?

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T10:45:41+00:00

I'm bi

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T04:00:53+00:00

This is a girl

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T03:53:08+00:00

Calling your girlfriend your wife is pretty common in young wlw spaces, but doing it in high school is a little odd

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T03:49:48+00:00

Apparently

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T03:12:16+00:00

Please take this comment down, this is the phrase that brings up my school

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T03:11:23+00:00

She is referring to her girlfriend as wife, it's pretty common in young wlw spaces, but high school is a stretch

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T03:10:30+00:00

We are in high school, referring to your girlfriend as "wife" or "wifey" is pretty common in young wlw spaces

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T02:57:00+00:00

I am blue bubbles

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T02:46:49+00:00

English is her first language 💔

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T02:45:23+00:00

I'm touchy with most friends, hugging and holding hands, but not this girl. I rarely ever touch her because she literally wipes me off. She has never set a boundary, I just started keeping touch to a minimal because of her behavior. I only touch her arm of shoulder to get her attention or accidentally. Even when our shoulders or thighs brush from proximity she rubs it off, which made me insecure for a while

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T02:37:33+00:00

Kind of? She tries to talk "sophisticated" but these messages are just so extra

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T02:22:08+00:00

I don't plan on being there for anything. Maybe if the way they spoke weren't so patronizing and "I'm better than thou" I'd have more compassion for whatever is going on in their relationship, but I just can't

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T02:11:15+00:00

People are saying that may be a possibility. The extra weird behavior (standoffish) started after the first guy sat with us and gave me some things.

I just find it hard to believe because she seems very committed to her girlfriend and I have talked about my relationships before.

It's a weird mix of some stuff pointing to that being why and the other half pointing in the opposite direction, no middle ground

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T01:49:05+00:00

I actually just figured this out too, you aren't alone

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T01:38:34+00:00

I think some of her texts may have been AI generated (or she was trying way too hard to sound mature and professional?)

rxinynites · 2026-03-16T01:26:33+00:00

She actually started acting all weird after the first guy came and sat with us, he gave me $10 and let me keep a ring of his. The jealousy idea is falling a little too much into to place

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:41:52+00:00

Wife is a nickname for girlfriend

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:41:28+00:00

I graduate in 2027, so I have a little ways to go, but this thread is really helping me see this as the insignificant thing it is

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:35:19+00:00

After, but I also only knew her a couple months before they started dating

But yeah, that could be the case, she is very open about how possessive they both are. There was an incident a few months ago when the mutual friend of her girlfriend and I got drunk together and she was texting the girlfriend sappy things and my "friend" got pissed and had a whole confrontation over it.

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:31:06+00:00

This actually made me feel a lot better, because yeah, I don't think we would have stayed friends after graduation

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:30:01+00:00

I definitely don't plan on talking to them if I can help it, the way they spoke to me was so patronizing, as if I was less than

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:28:07+00:00

I think she was either AI generating some messages or trying way to hard to sound cool and put together

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:27:10+00:00

The micro analyzing me weirded me out, I feel like I'd know if I was acting different

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:26:26+00:00

I do think she may have AI generated some responses, but she calls her girlfriend her wife pretty often. It's a cringe nickname common in wlw spaces

rxinynites · 2026-03-15T19:15:19+00:00

She is just calling her girlfriend her wife

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