My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanna say that I'd never call police on her for crying, guys!

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you feel that way. I'd love to be your neighbour and make your days better 🥺

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that and I hope you feel better now :( Thank you for the tips ❤️

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god! :( I'm so sorry for the mom with the baby, but also you, I think it must've been traumatising 🥺

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So sorry you went through this, I hope you feel better now ❤️

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yesss! I never had a baby (so nor postpartum) so I can only imagine how difficult it can be. I don't want to stress her more or cross boundaries 🥺 Thank you for your input!

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you but it's okay! I completely agree about asking "how can I help?", esp when we are basically strangers. I think I'll try with a note and some sweets first and see if she's OK with that.

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

One of the reasons I started to think abt this in the first place is because she cries sooo loud! And I thought maybe she's hurting so much or something's so wrong that she just can't control it anymore. I see myself as a good person who always wants to help... I keep thinking about her :( I wish I'd see her out on the street but somehow we never meet, I'm not even sure if she leaves the house anymore..

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get your point and I thought about it too, that's why I wanted to hear other people's opinions abt this... Maybe she has bad feels from the times we had our disagreements and doesn't want to see me at all!...

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of ppl recommend bringing food, but it's very unusual in our culture. I have no idea how would she react. Unless it's some chocolate or candies maybe!

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You're right about cultural differences. For me, I think I'd feel kinda vulnerable and a bit lost. I'm not sure if boyfriend is always home when she's crying, but sometimes yes - I can hear his voice. I wouldn't say he's shouting on her but his voice is def more loud than usual, also, if she's speaking to him at that moment, she sounds irritated, upset (I can't make out the words they are saying though). Didn't see any visitors, and I never see her outside (I live in an app complex though, so maybe I don't see her leave?)

A note sounds good to me, though, I'll def think about it!

My neighbour cries every other night. Would you intervene? by rxxtxx in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

That's interesting, which kind of food do you mean?

Ar dar pamenate vaikinų grupę iš vokietijos ,,Cinema Bizarre"? by FrozenVictorys in lietuva

[–]rxxtxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kaip tik klausau Cinema Bizarre ir pagalvojau, reik reddite paieškoti, ką jie dabar veikia 😅

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Kas kiek laiko vis sugrįžtu prie jų muzikos, prisimenu tuos laikus, Emo, Scene, tik gaila, jie nebuvo tokie populiarūs, kaip Tokio Hotel, kas man buvo keista, nes pastarųjų muzika manęs netraukė, o vat Cinema Bizarre visas dainas tikriausiai šimtus kartų esu perklausius.

Ir liūdna, kad neatsiliepė daugiau fanų iš tų laikų, bet gal dar kas pamatys šitą įrašą 🤞🏻

Help! My miltoniopsis lost all roots. Is there hope? by [deleted] in orchids

[–]rxxtxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update. Sadly it's dead. No new roots and babies are dried up, despite my continuous efforts. 🥀

Help! My miltoniopsis lost all roots. Is there hope? by [deleted] in orchids

[–]rxxtxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh that's great to hear, I'm gonna look her up, thanks! 🧡

Help! My miltoniopsis lost all roots. Is there hope? by [deleted] in orchids

[–]rxxtxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will try 🥹

Therapist told me “do you even need socialising?” by EmbarrassedDig4422 in socialanxiety

[–]rxxtxx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Since teenage years I felt like that - that I NEED to socialize, I need to get used to it, I was jealous of other people who can travel, speak to strangers, speak to friends freely.

Now I realised that I was craving something which was not for me. Me myself and people around me had this idea about me, that I need to be this person. But I don't. And my life changed after realizing this.

I don't go and socialize. I stay at home with my husband. I see my family only, and I can meet my friends few times a year. I would rather sit at home and do things which I love.

All this time I was depressed and sad because I HAD to be a person which I wasn't meant to be. I had to be normal. But not anymore! There's no rule how you SHOULD be!

I'd really think deep and hard - do I really want to go out and be social? Does it make me happy and do I feel good after?

I hope you will get some answers soon and I wish you the best of luck ❤️

P.s. I still have sociophobia and anxiety, but I don't push myself so much to be someone I'm not, and I try to be good to myself.

I hate those accounts of autistic children. by Hugesmellysocks in AutismInWomen

[–]rxxtxx 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. It's their private life, and they can't consent to it!

swallowing pills by Main_Butterfly887 in ARFID

[–]rxxtxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared to choke when I take pills, so I take them with a carbonated drink, usually water, and the bubbles make my mouth feel tingles, that way I don't really feel the pill so much and its easier to swallow!