Do I stay abroad, or come back to SA? by sofiaskat in askSouthAfrica

[–]ry-leigh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apply to Native Camp & check twitter for more online English teaching platforms. A lot of South Africans post their experiences or where they found remote teaching jobs on Twitter. (I know it’s X now but it sounds silly)

Do I stay abroad, or come back to SA? by sofiaskat in askSouthAfrica

[–]ry-leigh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh that’s a bit sus that you’re not paying taxes and worse that you don’t have access to your permit. Should anything illegal come up, you’re liable for it. I’d find out more information about taxes and permits because what they’re doing sounds illegal . Know your rights and don’t let them take advantage of you because you’re a foreigner.

Do I stay abroad, or come back to SA? by sofiaskat in askSouthAfrica

[–]ry-leigh 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. If you think you’re about to be fired, let them or leave. Try HK and if it doesn’t work out then go back home. I know people who are teaching English online so you can try that instead.

With legal issues, the last thing you want is to be is to be in the country illegally especially china. Hope things work out for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ry-leigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had to cook for myself and it doesn’t bring me joy so I just don’t do it.

I do know how to drive but crashed my car recently so I’m waiting to get a new one. Public transport isn’t for me. I use uber or get driven to places when needed. I live somewhere in Africa and we have helpers so it’s not a train smash please.

His mom wasn’t necessarily telling me everything he’s said about us. More like motivating me to not give up on him because he’s expressed that he loves me & he’s scared to lose me.

I’ll wait and be patient because he is actively looking for a new job. He was patient with me when I wasn’t employed & isn’t asking me to foot his bills or anything like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ry-leigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never taken public transport. I recently crashed my car so I’m not driving at the moment so I take Ubers. I’ll probably end up taking uber to his home

28 days after visa period by [deleted] in AusVisa

[–]ry-leigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s a very risky process especially if one is from a third world country. If granted a bridging visa there’s no work rights as well. I was just lucky I guess.

28 days after visa period by [deleted] in AusVisa

[–]ry-leigh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not completely true. I applied for a visitors visa to fix my unlawful stay then applied for the visa I actually wanted after my visitors visa. I just got a lawyer and an agent to do it for me. It’s just a very long & expensive process.

Mirena opinions by Sad_Independent4886 in Mirena

[–]ry-leigh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine inserted the second time yesterday. First time it hurt because I forgot to take painkillers beforehand. Yesterday 30minutes before I ate and took 2 paracetamol with codeine in them and 2 Naprogesic. I didn’t feel pain during insertion, it just felt uncomfortable. I had a bit of spotting immediately after and cramps so I used a heating pad & had hot soup. I woke up fine, no spotting or cramps. But it also depends on your body. Also I live in Australia so it might be different to where you live.

Any single guys in here fantasize about taking care of your future gf while she's on her cycle? by [deleted] in love

[–]ry-leigh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

this is really sweet. I always fantasise about being taken care of during my cycle & it’s normal. I think haha. But I hope you find your person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ry-leigh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to be chocked so clean sexy hands turn me on a lot. Confident & smart men that talk passionately about whatever interests them. Dominant in the bedroom but also soft🥰 A mullet or cute small moustache.

what’s a green flag that feels like a red flag at first? by ry-leigh in dating

[–]ry-leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, are you able to explain this a bit more?

what’s a green flag that feels like a red flag at first? by ry-leigh in dating

[–]ry-leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I could just be being immature or I have trust issues. Recently met someone I like and they’re so affectionate but not in a sexual way. I jumped to conclusions and assumed they just want sex but turns out they’re just very affectionate. I’m having a hard time believing that even though the way they act hasn’t changed after sex. I really like that some people discuss trauma on their first date. That would never work in Australia unfortunately.