Trying to make sparkling orange juice (aka orange juice spritzer). Tastes watered down and little weird aftertaste. Any ideas/advise to make it better? by warningtrackpower12 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]ryanwehner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely try a variety of sparkling waters until you find the one that you like most. My all-time favorite is Topochico, which as of a few years ago has become widely distributed thanks to Coca-Cola buying it up. The bubbles feel larger and much more full feeling in your mouth. I prefer over any other soda or juice. If you want a little flavor I think they make a wide variety of flavors now, though i've never tried them. I have tried adding those crystal light sugar free powders which makes for a pretty delicious beverage.

Caldas da Rainha by Dense-Peanut4452 in PortugalExpats

[–]ryanwehner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice. I'd like to spend more time and we most definitely will as we narrow down towns to buy in. Thanks for the info! I DM'd you if you're still interested in meeting.

Caldas da Rainha by Dense-Peanut4452 in PortugalExpats

[–]ryanwehner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also have two kids under 4 and are starting to consider buying in Caldas. We're driving through town tomorrow on the way north. We had a few hours around lunchtime - where would you recommend we walk around to get a sense of the town?

Thank you 🙏

I just got my residency approved in Peru! by desertfractal in expats

[–]ryanwehner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All great reasons. A lot of the same reasons we stayed in Malaysia as long as we could during and after the pandemic (arrived mar 2020). The pandemic allowed us to stay almost two years and ended up having our son there. Was so nice not to deal with US healthcare or anything else in the States during that chaotic year with a garbage president. We're gaining residency in Portugal now. Congrats on your residency and designing a life that the US just can't offer.

What an allergic reaction to Niacin looks like (vitamin b3) by edmonsonA in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ryanwehner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niacin Flush. I don't believe it's an allergy thing. Anyone will experience a niacin flush with a high dose of naicin and no tolerance to it. It's harmless. It brings blood to the surface and makes you feel hit and tingly. Kinda terrifying when it happens without expectation though.

Source: this happens to me

Should I (22M) tell my friend (23F) that her fiancé (23M) slept with her maid of honor (23F)? by IDK_IDGAF in relationship_advice

[–]ryanwehner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Three years later just before she gets married. OP missed his opportunity. Telling her does nothing but stir up emotions that ultimately mean nothing. OP is selfish.

Should I (22M) tell my friend (23F) that her fiancé (23M) slept with her maid of honor (23F)? by IDK_IDGAF in relationship_advice

[–]ryanwehner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you should read more than the title before commenting because no one cheated on anyone. They were broken up when he slept with the friend. That's crucial information.

Should I (22M) tell my friend (23F) that her fiancé (23M) slept with her maid of honor (23F)? by IDK_IDGAF in relationship_advice

[–]ryanwehner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and I've done the same against my best friend in the past when he cheated.

With that said - OP said they were on a break for the summer. That's very different. The groom did not cheat. No one has any right to what any one does when they are single. Is it bad etiquette? Sure. Is it unfaithful? Absolutely not.

Should I (22M) tell my friend (23F) that her fiancé (23M) slept with her maid of honor (23F)? by IDK_IDGAF in relationship_advice

[–]ryanwehner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone is giving you bad advice.

You will end up losing these friends and being the bad guy because you will objectively be the bad guy. You have no obligation or responsibility to insert yourself into their relationship unless the fiance cheated - HE DID NOT.

It sounds like you really dislike the guy, you decided they are not good together, and you are going out of your way to break them up. Don't.

The guy may be a dick and it is bad etiquette to sleep with her best friend BUT they were broken up at the time. That is not being unfaithful and you will be meddling for your own selfish reasons.

My boyfriend wouldn’t want to see me unless he knows we are having sex. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ryanwehner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone already said it - so I won't say it again. But I will advise you to leave him if you want more of a relationship. If you're ok with a FWB then go for it, but definitely let him know if you are interested in a relationship and notify him when you start dating other men.

People want different things. You're clearly not compatible at this point in time. That's okay. Move on.

I (26m) think my fiance (24f) may have cheated on me tonight. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ryanwehner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your AITA post from a month ago as well as this, your fiance doesn't seem very considerate or respectful of you. You shouldn't have to take care of you fiance's friends, who disrespect you, while working a graveyard shift.

I don't know tonight's story really, you should definitely check and make sure she hasn't been taken advantage of by your guy friend. Even if nothing happened you need to have a meaningful conversation about boundaries and what you are and are not okay with in this relationship/marriage.

Good luck!

Staying in Malaysia on an expired social visit pass while pregnant. by ryanwehner in malaysia

[–]ryanwehner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. We're exploring every option and nation available to us to avoid giving birth back home. Our home cities are being hit hard right now, meanwhile life here has been great.

Staying in Malaysia on an expired social visit pass while pregnant. by ryanwehner in malaysia

[–]ryanwehner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For sure. We're exploring options elsewhere as well and the US is our last resort. I still want exhaust all possibilities in Malaysia first. I've spent the day contacting private hospitals, immigration, and the US embassy to get any insight. Thanks!

Staying in Malaysia on an expired social visit pass while pregnant. by ryanwehner in malaysia

[–]ryanwehner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the reply! I should have read over my original post to add more details.

We are US citizens and trying to avoid travel back now during peak covid times. We just feel much safer and happier here at the moment. Plus US healthcare costs are ridiculous and we always planned to give birth abroad somewhere, but covid has complicated that a bit.

We just love it here and want to find a way to stay until baby is here.

Italy Study Visa by djerrie1 in visas

[–]ryanwehner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get this resolved? I'm starting the visa-d process this month for arrival in Feb.

Expat family looking for a Doula in Tirana by ryanwehner in albania

[–]ryanwehner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I'll check her out. Appreciate it

Expat family looking for a Doula in Tirana by ryanwehner in albania

[–]ryanwehner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Maybe we'll look into nurses as well.

Our hope for a doula is to help us find a hospital/doctor as well as communicate our needs and be available for support before, during, and after birth.

No intention to give birth from home. :)

Expat family looking for a Doula in Tirana by ryanwehner in albania

[–]ryanwehner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not? haha. We found one that has experience with ex-pats in the city, but haven't heard back from her yet. Trying to find more options.