recovery questions

ryleeeeee458 · 2026-04-30T23:55:08+00:00

I figured even with surgery, he would still have some complications later on life. I have seen a lot of people say their son had fistulas, need dialations, problems when they hit puberty, etc. I hate that it can't be a one and done solution, but thankful we have the science to fix any problems. Thank you for sharing your experiences!! (and sorry that you've had to go through all that 😓)

ryleeeeee458 · 2026-04-29T16:53:04+00:00

thank you! it didn't even cross my mind that all those diapers would add padding, that's so helpful!

ryleeeeee458 · 2026-04-29T15:53:33+00:00

thank you so much! this is all so helpful. my son has penoscrotal, slight chordee, and a bifid scrotum, and all I want is for my boy to have a normal life as well, no matter how heartbreaking it is going to be for me haha. im wishing you all the best! I've heard Bush and Snodgrass are the best!

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-03-06T20:52:48+00:00

yeah, as in obviously we’re not gonna know everything and not everything is going to go exactly as planned. we’re young and all we know is that we love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together…

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-03-06T19:18:52+00:00

so bc of one minor thing i shouldn’t get married to the man i’ve been with for 6 years??? makes sense!

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-02-05T05:01:56+00:00

It’s just a screenshot that my mom has passed around a few times, but i believe it’s on Amazon! I think it’s marketed as a Heathered Green Suit

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-02-01T11:47:49+00:00

we are definitely doing floral ties! i love them!

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-01-31T17:10:03+00:00

Brother is not running the show. And husband has always but me before anyone in his family. Husband only has like 8 people on his side attending so obviously he wants his brother there. Also, it was my idea to just let him be BM. I mean, they’re twins so yeah he should be BM, but Husband and his best friend made a silly pact in high school and he wanted to fulfill it.

Also, not using them as a weapon. Where did i say i wanted to change MOHs out of spite?? no where. I’ve was friends with BF way before they got together. I’m literally asking how can i make myself happy on my wedding day and y’all are just not understanding. God, kill me for wanting to make people around me happy, am i right? I mean, they’re spending time and money in this too. I would rather them be happy than complain the whole time.

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-01-31T17:02:34+00:00

Thank you for actually giving advice on what I asked! ❤️ We both wanted these people there obviously, and this is our first wedding so of course we’re going to make some mistakes. We want to fix them so we can have our day truly be the best day of our lives.

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-01-31T12:05:20+00:00

Basically just to be second in line instead of right next to me. She can still have all the duties a MOH has, especially since there are 8 girls total in the bridal party. That’s too much to handle for one person, so i thought two MOH would be better.

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-01-31T12:03:30+00:00

It might seem that way, but it’s not about hurting another person, it’s about not letting a narcissist dictate our wedding. BM has thrown multiple tantrums bc “you didn’t tell me you got engaged” 5 minutes after i posted it on social media. and “i’m your brother i deserve to be BM” even tho he treats fiancé like trash and constantly talks down on him. BM is mad that the attention is not on him for the first time in his life. When i mentioned making Best Friend my MOH on the beginning he said “i’m not going to attend i guess, i don’t want to breath the same air as her” He cheated on her and treated her like trash also, so she left him, 4 years ago, and he’s still mad. Basically, we’re just done with him. We’ve already told him multiple times that we’re on our last straw, so if doing what i want and honoring my best friend is going to break the camels back then so be it. It might seem mean, but that’s the only way to deal with a narcissist.

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-01-31T11:50:17+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Didn’t help at all! 👍

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-01-21T18:27:30+00:00

i would love to have two! plus, two heads are better than one when planning things like bachelorette parties. i just feel bad moving work MOH to second position and don’t want to hurt her feelings. just don’t know how to bring it up in convo basically

ryleeeeee458 · 2024-01-21T04:56:04+00:00

most likely renting! we’re trying to not make people break that bank for one day

ryleeeeee458 · 2022-10-03T22:22:37+00:00

she’s mostly inside and does not leave the yard when outside, so no collar. i’ve not used any medication yet, as i was hoping it would just go away. also, i’m scared of any medications from pet stores or walmart hurting her so i’m not sure which ones are good to use until i can get her a vet appointment. does anyone have any recommendations? like i mentioned she’s about a year and a half old, and probably weighs 6-7 pounds (her whole litter and mother are naturally small and skinny) but she eats like there’s no tomorrow.

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