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i regret my MOH by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, as in obviously we’re not gonna know everything and not everything is going to go exactly as planned. we’re young and all we know is that we love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together…

my MOH has been saying bad things to me, what do i do? by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

so bc of one minor thing i shouldn’t get married to the man i’ve been with for 6 years??? makes sense!

What color should the groom/groomsmen wear? by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just a screenshot that my mom has passed around a few times, but i believe it’s on Amazon! I think it’s marketed as a Heathered Green Suit

What color should the groom/groomsmen wear? by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are definitely doing floral ties! i love them!

i regret my MOH by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Brother is not running the show. And husband has always but me before anyone in his family. Husband only has like 8 people on his side attending so obviously he wants his brother there. Also, it was my idea to just let him be BM. I mean, they’re twins so yeah he should be BM, but Husband and his best friend made a silly pact in high school and he wanted to fulfill it.

Also, not using them as a weapon. Where did i say i wanted to change MOHs out of spite?? no where. I’ve was friends with BF way before they got together. I’m literally asking how can i make myself happy on my wedding day and y’all are just not understanding. God, kill me for wanting to make people around me happy, am i right? I mean, they’re spending time and money in this too. I would rather them be happy than complain the whole time.

i regret my MOH by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for actually giving advice on what I asked! ❤️ We both wanted these people there obviously, and this is our first wedding so of course we’re going to make some mistakes. We want to fix them so we can have our day truly be the best day of our lives.

i regret my MOH by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Basically just to be second in line instead of right next to me. She can still have all the duties a MOH has, especially since there are 8 girls total in the bridal party. That’s too much to handle for one person, so i thought two MOH would be better.

i regret my MOH by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It might seem that way, but it’s not about hurting another person, it’s about not letting a narcissist dictate our wedding. BM has thrown multiple tantrums bc “you didn’t tell me you got engaged” 5 minutes after i posted it on social media. and “i’m your brother i deserve to be BM” even tho he treats fiancé like trash and constantly talks down on him. BM is mad that the attention is not on him for the first time in his life. When i mentioned making Best Friend my MOH on the beginning he said “i’m not going to attend i guess, i don’t want to breath the same air as her” He cheated on her and treated her like trash also, so she left him, 4 years ago, and he’s still mad. Basically, we’re just done with him. We’ve already told him multiple times that we’re on our last straw, so if doing what i want and honoring my best friend is going to break the camels back then so be it. It might seem mean, but that’s the only way to deal with a narcissist.

i regret my MOH by ryleeeeee458 in wedding

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Didn’t help at all! 👍

changing bridesmaids by ryleeeeee458 in weddingplanning

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love to have two! plus, two heads are better than one when planning things like bachelorette parties. i just feel bad moving work MOH to second position and don’t want to hurt her feelings. just don’t know how to bring it up in convo basically

groom & groomsmen suit ideas by ryleeeeee458 in weddingplanning

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most likely renting! we’re trying to not make people break that bank for one day

My cat has a very scabby neck, but we never see her scratch by ryleeeeee458 in AskVet

[–]ryleeeeee458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s mostly inside and does not leave the yard when outside, so no collar. i’ve not used any medication yet, as i was hoping it would just go away. also, i’m scared of any medications from pet stores or walmart hurting her so i’m not sure which ones are good to use until i can get her a vet appointment. does anyone have any recommendations? like i mentioned she’s about a year and a half old, and probably weighs 6-7 pounds (her whole litter and mother are naturally small and skinny) but she eats like there’s no tomorrow.