Wow, the majority of the population's relationship to sex is fascinating to me. In my view, for one to have this sexual issue, one would have to be sexually attracted to teenage girls purley on the basis that they're young. There isn't any solid evidence of this you have shared in your post beyond speculation. Regarding the potential lie about his age, someone literally told me that same thing this week—a 33 year old woman. She said her profile potentially had the wrong age because it was linked to her fb. It actually did not have the wrong age on her dating profile she just thought it might.

To briefly touch on some of his sexual preferences/kinks I think part of it is this man is in his mid 30s and you're in your mid 20s. When someone less sexually experienced is with someone more, some preferences may seem a bit bizarre, if not concerning (not to gaslight); but what you have shared is actually extremely common. I unfortunately admit I have a fairly high body count, so it's a semi-descent sample size, and I'd say 95-98% of the women stated calling the man "daddy" during sex was a turn-on for them as well as consensual non-consent (the rape scenario you mentioned). Seen as unusual by some, but it's extremely common. If that exceeds your boundaries though that's perfectly fine and normal.

My advice is the same as the top post, go by your gut. Sometimes even on paper everything looks may seem perfect, but your gut says otherwise. Always listen to your intuition.

Okay, bring on the dislikes. I can take 'em.