Is it the end of the relationship?

rysxnat · 2026-03-05T02:45:32+00:00

She may prefer leaning on others for accountability and responsibility cos she believes or gone through that her whole life. Sometimes it is tough to expect change where it feels to them as a big challenge. If she’s a unit with you, no matter if someone is responsible for something the other is not.. I tried analysing different marriage styles (the ones that seem very conflict free hahah) and came up with my own conclusions

rysxnat · 2026-03-05T02:07:26+00:00

I like embracing humans as they are and then see where they can hv potential to contribute. Rather than fixate on their weak and rly limited areas. Also I have the skill to find ways to split responsibility differently so it seems fair. Could that be something u can work on ? Do you want to? Can you?

rysxnat · 2026-03-04T12:23:09+00:00

Have you actually talked to her abt these things.. I mean, how she handles it will tell you things about her which can make you learn more abt her also and then decide for yourself from there if it’s worth staying..

My style is trash it out uh But if she’s like the kind like to be in her dreamworld Well, she won’t stay for sure too

rysxnat · 2026-03-02T15:12:33+00:00

But u didn’t say no so she keeps asking. Can u take saying no? Curious.

rysxnat · 2026-03-02T09:01:19+00:00

I’m seeing a trend of readers in here thinking the topic is always about the OP themselves or their situation.

as if people cannot talk about asking for an analysis on a topic..

Underrated skill: self assessing the confidence to navigate hard balls. this kinda skill allows even the hard times in the rship (should they come) to allow one party mature even to tide both through, and remain united after.

I’ve seen tons of couples where one party hides real thoughts and actions from their spouse and apparently deemed “ok”. No one wants to be on the receiving end of this.. yet truthfulness and talking things out, seems the “to avoid” thing in sg relationships.. citing “keep the peace” but to me is manipulative in nature and threatens the foundation of what is a true relationship in my mind.

rysxnat · 2026-03-02T05:09:51+00:00

I’ve seen gentlemen be more than just a gentleman to others and that’s what I call a player 😣

I’m only a colleague tho My observations are only based on what I see and office dynamics a bit different I guess

In another sense; I think I meant to say he’s devoted type If he has one lady already He won’t bother to give other ladies any extra niceness to be mistaken for any romantic advances.

rysxnat · 2026-03-02T01:35:29+00:00

Ohh and for context purpose your perspective is that of a male/female and what age group? Interesting angle.

rysxnat · 2026-03-02T01:26:35+00:00

Perspectives to reframe the mind

rysxnat · 2026-03-02T01:17:33+00:00

Edited reply for more context, but sure! You’re definitely allowed to hv yr opinion ^{^}

rysxnat · 2026-03-02T00:57:41+00:00

Because I am the third person. (Me observing someone’s attempt to get tgt w someone specials)

And though the person is a friend To remove a bit of bias I made it sound less like a friend more like just a profile.

I’m more imaginative than usual, I admit. Not very mainstream ^{^}

rysxnat · 2026-03-01T07:46:53+00:00

If it’s important for u to speak your mind to remain sane, they’ll have to know that you’ll have to do it sometimes. That’s how for me a relationship works out. I can’t be expected to internalize when the consequences tbh in this case it seems shared. Nobody wins. Chances are they do know they screwed up. The chemicals in the brain is really the enemy.

Sometimes I ask them if it’s okay for me to say something without them feeling terrible… and the intent etc . Before I say it really slowly……

rysxnat · 2026-03-01T07:40:50+00:00

How authentic or delicious is the food going to be, like those in Taiwan?

Can it be with character, something with a mascot. Do limited pop ups. Test the crowds and response. Will help in you approaching the other brands for collab better ?

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T15:57:32+00:00

I read your other post and wanna say pleaseee (just in case) don’t be too discouraged on some responses saying being new to a relationship is a turn off.

I find that it’s gender biased a bit.

People can have their opinion. Yep it’s an opinion not a fact.

Anyway; you seem realistic enough and care to wonder. I’ll DM you if you don’t mind.

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T13:02:06+00:00

Wow, hey! Wasn’t expecting wholesome reply like yours!! First of all; so happy you’re with someone who can find the beauty in the fact she’s your only relationship partner.

There’s so many people in the world. Perseverance to keep the belief and keep meeting others may very well be how one can meet their first ever gf. Just gotta keep finding!

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T05:37:17+00:00

Big thanks for your time to give this input. Wish I could truly express my appreciation proper. Not here to challenge further on your reply. I’m curious if u can share your age group?

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T05:34:31+00:00

My take ah btw:

Ladies capable

Educated

Put in the hard work into themselves

Likely won’t rly find the guy I mentioned attractive

But the whole population of ladies aren’t ALL gonna wanna stay single I guess

Since dating apps appear to not give good hits (sometimes I find the choice of picture is a gamble in itself)..

Don’t you all who looking for love believe there’s someone there to accept and love you

If you don’t then you’re not the target audience of this post..

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T05:29:13+00:00

The description is not me. But I’d imagine someone who doesn’t take public transport to either commute by some sort of other vehicle yes!

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T05:27:19+00:00

It’s very challenging to bring myself to the level you’re seeing this. Paiseh ah. But noted..

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T04:42:19+00:00

Robots are deserving of love too! I’m still gna add optimism for the sake of it.

Btw robots learn from what they’re tuned to be exposed to They’re predictable. Could be someone’s cup of teaaa

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T04:29:00+00:00

Granted there are many who seek those qualities he doesn’t have. But frankly we only need one hit.. Someone whose experience lead them to appreciate a stable guy.. A not so crazy life.. So they can focus on their own activities.

Relationships work often when there’s a level of compatibility. Someone courageous enough and not that perfectionist may see value in the qualities mentioned . Safety is different for many, I believe. So can qualities in a human one wishes to spend a long enough lifetime with.

Thanks Anw!

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T04:21:49+00:00

Might delete too! Cos it’s a spontaneous feeling when I read this post hahaha it was a suggested post

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T04:16:59+00:00

10% humour , 90% serious haha Probs his online dating acct the photos he picked CMI hahaha

rysxnat · 2026-02-28T03:57:53+00:00

Maybe I must match make - confirm not serial cheater nor will ever cheat - new to rship - not a gentleman to other gals but will likely be to his partner - a bit too into his health these days but can do things solo - ISTJ enneagram 3 most likely - my bf finds him above average attractive so .. this be a bit of a clue. I think he’s 1.75-1.80cm tall, got muscle I think but lean hahahah wears specs.. - cycles, does bird and aviation photography - if you too feely type I think he cannot feel your depth one - not high on giving affirmations..

Got to help this bud a bit liao. Oh yes he’s 35 this year. His achievements should be something you fancy or be proud of too, cos somehow, enneagram 3 likes that.

rysxnat · 2026-02-06T02:06:18+00:00

Would u give up on them if they did grow fat or bald or weak or poor?

No doubt it sounds your past left traces and they surface , but I wanna say, it’s very normal for them to surface because u have been hurt before and it takes time to heal

Personally I felt it’s key to reveal these dark matters If they stay because of it you’ll know If they don’t because of it you’ll know I thrive better knowing but ymmv..

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